The human race has always been the same,

you have to live to 40 to notice that your fantasy wore off.

Fake it till you make it.

Boys will be boys and girls will take both cars and the house.

You are at a night club with a band and a woman buys you a drink

and asks you to dance. You dance with her. After the set see asks

if you want to go out back for some fresh air. You say yes because

it is loud and you want to talk to her. When you get out back

there is no one there and she takes her shirt off with nothing

underneath and says she's married.

Is that inappropriate behavior?

You are at a night club dancing and a woman you don't know

comes over and shoves a dollar down your pants.

Is that inappropriate behavior?

You are at a night club with a band and a couple walk in.

Some how you end up talking to the guy about football.

They leave and 45 minutes later she comes back alone

and picks you up and takes you back to your place.

Is that inappropriate behavior?

Your room mates girl friend stops by unannounced looking

for him. You let her in so she can wait a while and see if he shows up.

Once in side she comes over and pulls your pants down and 

your mind is blown.

Is that inappropriate behavior?

You are at a gas station and a woman you don't know comes over and starts

talking to you. You say no and walk to your car and try to escape.

As you wait to pull into traffic she followed you on foot though

a parking lot and is standing behind your car smoking a cigarette.

Is that inappropriate behavior?

If you don't believe this you are in denial and should see a psychiatrist.

Smoking within the vicinity of a gas [petrol] station IS 'inappropriate' behaviour .... it's also dangerous...

There is a culture of inappropriate sexual behaviour in the TV and movie industries across the world, among other places.  Powerful figures use their positions to treat newcomers and those below them disgracefully, and it has gone on for far too long because there has been in place a code of silence among colleagues.... and threats to those who were harmed by this nasty culture.

Several Australian TV stars have been called out just recently, possibly in response to the Weinstein thing, but it has been going on for the last 50 years or more because of the code of silence and the threats to young, impressionable up-and-comers.  Nobody was game or willing to talk openly about it.... hence it continues.

Hopefully these exposes will help bring an end to it all and see the perps doing some time in prison

So women don't turn the tables and use sex to get to places of power?

And if they do they definitely won't go to prison?

Yes, every one of those is inappropriate behavior. All of them.

All of this nonsense had an origin point, not saying what that origin is for obvious reasons. Being that there are two sides to every coin will a female CEO or an equivalent be immediately fired or censured because of allegations made by a male employee? Somehow I don't see that happening. Welcome to our slow descent into hell. So sign up boys and girls, the tickets are one way only. Sorry but all this has touched a nerve.  

Of course they do, and no they won't.

Our society is being arrogant (people act as if they themselves would/could do no wrong) and hypocritical (everyone knows how the system works but they pretend to be shocked and surprised).  Wrong or right, this games between men and women are nothing new: men use power to get sex, women use sex to get power.

It has *always* been like this.

If you think about it, BOTH behaviors are equally wrong (although that is how the world turns): it takes two to tango, and without women willing to play the game, there would be no game to play. For every woman that said no, there were many more who willingly exchanged sex for a shot at stardom - and in doing so they made sure the system perpetuated itself and other women would have to face the same choice. These women are as guilty as the men that seduced them with promises, yet they are seen as victims and the men as predators. I say they are BOTH equally guilty, both predators but with different motivations: men wanted sex, women wanted fame. Both were wiling to sacrifice their integrity to get something they wanted, and both made a conscious choice to do so.

I'm not defending these behaviors, I'm just saying you cannot (should not) condemn one without condemning the other. You cannot say yes, then change your mind *after the fact* and accuse the other person of rape. That is NOT how it works, you have to be accountable for your own (bad) choices.

Uvah, I have to constantly remind myself of something to maintain what's left of my sanity.  The news takes the behavior of a very small percentage of people and puts it under a microscope until it seem really, really, big.  That's not to say there aren't real issues, but perspective is a good thing.

Beyond the sex thing, I'd say killing people in churches, schools and randomly by the dozens falls into "innaproprate" behaviour as well.

I understand that some things can be blown out of proportion but to what end. Society has devolved over the years when its really supposed to be going the other way. Since when do we run backwards. 

Of course they do, and it is no more right than men in positions of power using women for sex.

As for going to prison, probably not, but in my opinion, anyone who uses a position of power, etc, to get what essentially is non-consensual sex, is a predator and a rapist, and therefore, male or female, should do time in prison.  Let there be no distinction, both male AND female offenders should do time.

Yes AND NO, JC, not all cases are cut and dry.  I knew of a young woman whose friends encouraged her to be interviewed by a TV producer for a position on a [I shall not name] network's journalism team, and what happened to her was horrendous.  She was a Christian girl, a virgin [waiting until marriage] and somewhat a shrinking violet, and as much as she resisted his advances and promises of fame, she was no match and the man took advantage because he was bigger and stronger. 

The eventual outcome was him serving 15 years for rape and aggravated assault, but that will never restore her dignity or trust.  Last I heard she was working as a journalist on a different network, so she has been able to move on career-wise, but she never should have been subjected to that kind of thing to begin with.

Now this is extremely inappropriate behaviour and it horrifies me beyond explanation.  So without going into a gun control debate, we don't need that again, some members of society should never have firearms, particularly those with unstable mental health issues and persons with a history of violence.... including domestic violence.  A recent study showed that persons with a past of domestic violence were more likely to go on shooting sprees than other criminal types.

Sadly, there are no simple fixes to any of these problems, but maybe broad-based education programs would help in decreasing these crimes.

That IS rape, pure and simple, and not at all what I was talking about (which is why he got those more-than-deserved 15 years in prison).

Thing is, some of the women who are complaining about Weinstein and other powerful TV/movies moguls were very much in similar situations, where no for an answer was unacceptable.  I have no doubt there are a number of vixens who audition with views of offering themselves for parts.... and frankly, they have NO complaints because they asked for what they got.  Sadly, however, it is these women who aid to perpetuate the culture that can often capture quite innocent women whose intentions are purely to find work in the entertainment industries.... without having to give of themselves in ways they'd rather not.

Sadly, there are too many powerful people only too willing to take advantage of those they see as far below them .... and here in Australia we have several parliament buildings full of them types.

Sadly its a mindset perpetuated by many years of men believing themselves superior and women accepting it as a matter of course. And JC is right to assign blame to both parties. Throughout history women have used their 'charms' to get what they want and men took advantage of it. Cleopatra did it when she seduced both Julius Caesar and Marc Antony to become queen of Egypt. So today if a woman walks into a place looking for a job and the boss says do this to get it she has a choice. Either she complies and maybe gets the job or she balls up a fist and flattens him then moves on. I'd like to think the shoe is on the other foot now and the so called weaker sex is finally stepping up and saying enough is enough. 

BTW: One of the fastest production cars in the world was designed by a woman. Its sleek, sexy and will blow your doors off. Point being equality is a hard thing to come by and sometimes the journey can be costly. History will always repeat itself because nobody learns from mistakes made. The present state of the world is a clear example of that.   

Sorry but I don't agree. No is and was always the answer. Reply 8 said it all.  Problem is now in this day and age "NO" isn't used much. Problem is children now don't even know the word. Just go to some stores. Kid cries, wines, screams, makes a fuss they get what they want. Doesn't matter if it's a toy or grocery store. I never had any of the problems of today. Never hit my children either but they sure as hell knew what NO meant.

These women coming out of the woodwork after 20 and 30 years and without any proof except for hear say. The men are wimps giving in . The news blows it all up and these people in today World believe it all. Bottom line is what was NOT a problem 25 years ago all of a sudden is and is now a Freaking joke. 

Again Reply 8 said it correctly. It was a two way street and now all these women are victims. Bullshit. Lots of money involved here I'm sure. 

Not saying all these women are victims, but there are surely innocent victims whose "NO" was ignored.  It could well be that some, if not many of these women have remained silent and stay in the shadows because of the shame.... the fact these were powerful men and they wouldn't have been believed.

Sure, we [as a society] could label all these women as job seeking whores who'd lay down for the right job, but that would be completely wrong and unfair.  We could also label the movie and TV moguls gigolos, rapists or players, but that too would be wrong and unfair.  Yes, both men and women got up to sexual hijinks behind closed doors, some with consent, some without, but let's not get it wrong and tar them all with the same brush, saying that none were innocent and deserved what they got.

That's why they abolished hanging, etc in so many places... because you can't resurrect the falsely accused

I don't think that at all. Some however could have.

I just think it was the time you know 20 or 30 years ago. The Women didn't really think much about a pat on the butt one way or another. I'm sure if things were bad enough they would have reported it right away. Still can't think it's now just about the money and attention. After all a lot of news outlets and TV people will pay good money for this information. 

I have yet to see any of the men have a court date. (except for Cosby but there was evidence there) It is what it is. Doesn't change the fact this world is going to shit with all these  Political correct people or so they think they are but most know nothing.

Back in the day they were called gold diggers, opting for charm to get ahead rather than on merit. If color were to rub off their noses would be brown aka ass kissers. This is true of both genders. Show me the bucks and you get to walk all over me while I smile happily. I'm sure many people high up there in the pecking order have their own little following. So some big influential dudes lost the high muck a muck crown. Standing in the wings are the ones who will replace them and it will be business as usual albeit in a more discreet fashion.

Maybe you'll have to sign a non disclosure agreement or...

A future employer will write into your contract a clause absolving him or her of culpability should things go south or...

Maybe nothing for either side and any kind of assurances becomes a moot point. They don't exist and neither do you if you open your mouth. This last one carries on to this day. Difference is...shoe is on the other foot. 

If something inappropriate happens at work that you can't live with,

is this your only course of action?

You report it to a higher up than the person who did it.

If nothing is done and it happens again,

Then your only choice is to find another job and fill out a police report

so there is a paper trail.

If you don't do this then aren't you to blame for any future abuse to yourself or others

and should be on trial with the perpetrator when something bad happens to someone else?

If this abuse was not reported at the time it happened as described above then

the person who didn't report it must have had something to gain by staying silent.

The abuser doesn't own the whole world so there must be some where to create a paper trail.

Now we are looking 30 years back,is there any evidence?