the fall of customize?
Wednesday, April 24, 2002 by John Hamp | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
Reply #3 Wednesday, April 24, 2002 6:41 PM
Once the creator/originator of the whole 'community' it is now certainly 'different'.
Whether that is because of the rise and flourishing of other sites, or whether it is a reflection of the behaviour and mind-set of its administrators, is open to conjecture.
But..
Too much ill-feeling has been directed by them at the members of the same community that Custo was pivotal in creating.
Reply #4 Wednesday, April 24, 2002 9:36 PM
Or Jark on DA or Chaz on LOS or Scarebear on Skinbase or Dave on Deskmod? It would never happen. It's just bizarre.
Reply #5 Wednesday, April 24, 2002 10:35 PM
The problem there is mostly young admins and users saying anything just for fun after a frustrated school day. This is the way to relax over there.

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Reply #8 Thursday, April 25, 2002 10:45 AM
old custo / new custo .. two totally different things.
Reply #9 Thursday, April 25, 2002 10:57 AM
that crowd over there (the new one) has been the same since day one of it's grand opening, I don't see it changing now cuz it already has established it's personality over there and I just read and click next on my Fav's and go onto the next flavor of site... hehe (each site has it's own theme even this one)
thou shall not judge ppl by the sites they visit...
(cept pr0n or porn) hehe
Doreen wonders why ppl get so bent outta shape from things they see or read on the net??? =/
Reply #10 Thursday, April 25, 2002 10:59 AM
good ole equivication. can't criticize indecent behavior because it's not indecent, it's just 'different'. pity. once upon a time there were concepts like right and wrong and people knew the difference. now it seems nothing is 'wrong'.Reply #11 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:02 AM
make a good product and "nothing that anyone can actually say" will bring it down, me thinks...
Reply #12 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:04 AM
"Wrong" and "inappropriate" are subjective and depend on your context. To them it may be okay, to you it may not.
Reply #13 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:04 AM
you can only control your own house that's it really.
Reply #14 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:06 AM
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Reply #17 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:12 AM
i mean.. i could tell my neighbor he has b.o. and i could mention it in conversations around the neighborhood. but it wouldn't be cool to do that. and.. i should expect to hear something from my neighbor about it, or at least expect him to not be quite as friendly towards me.it's about being polite. simple courtesy. is it 'required?' no.. but it's a good idea if you want to interact with people. often people don't catch on to this until they're a bit older and have screwed up a few interactions, or even friendships, by being rude or tactless.
Reply #18 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:18 AM

and I'm the type I would not tell my neighbor he has b.o. in person but on the net I would! hehe
I bet half the crowd over there at custo would not say the same things in person too... most are face to face shy?
(I know I am and I only sing my tunes on the net) hehe
some ppl can just express differently I guess, they are just venting their thoughts outloud whether ppl agree or disagree on the net welllll it does not matter cuz there is no net police to make them shut up or be quiet right but again
we all have that same right to speak or "Type" back!!! hehe

Reply #19 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:22 AM
craeonics goes looking for the dictionary
Reply #20 Thursday, April 25, 2002 11:26 AM

b.o. = Body odor
hehe
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Reply #1 Wednesday, April 24, 2002 3:51 PM
Only on Customize would the admins of the site tear down newly releases of skinning programs without even trying them.
http://www.customize.org/news/232
It's been quite a fall from where they once were. Now it's the slum of the skin community.