When Should Mom Stop

Sleeping and Showering with Boys

Tuesday, August 12, 2008 by RadialFX | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

My girlfriend and I are at odds on when should a parent start exihbiting healthy boundries to their children. She has 2 boys (10 and 13) and still showers with them and allows them to sleep with her. She's even described her oldest son's genitals as starting to look "Manly". The other day they were laughing in the background, I asked her what was so funny and she said they were laughing about rubbing soap on her ass in the shower. There's the situation. I'm concerned that if we try to take this any further I'm gonna be the "Bad Guy" that came along and took their space in the bed, shower, etc... Not to mention the kind of emotional damage it may induce. I know that the LAST thing I ever want to remember is what my mom looked like naked. I need some feedback....please. Thanks Edit: The reason I'm asking is because she thinks I'm whacked for being critical of the situation and It's about to cause a breakup. If I'm being wierd about this then I can swallow it and go on. BUT, I'm just convinced that there are going to be some major issues if she continues to ignore the suggestions. Issues that would be tough to deal with, jealousy, rebellion, all sorts of acting out, etc...
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ZubaZ
Reply #81 Thursday, August 14, 2008 1:50 PM
I think we need to alter Zubaz's avatar...and make it those pants.
The background of my avatar is Zubaz pants. 

DrJBHL
Reply #82 Thursday, August 14, 2008 1:56 PM
The background of my avatar is Zubaz pants.


Oy! It's worse than I thought!

Doronila1
Reply #83 Thursday, August 14, 2008 2:18 PM
lol, those pants.
80`s beefcake comes to mind.

Radial, update man!!
Im missing eastenders for this
Cant believe a woman can allow herself to do this to her kids

angus1949
Reply #84 Thursday, August 14, 2008 3:09 PM
Zubaz just can't spell "jokes".Angus: Zubaz just can't spell. Taake a look at WWW Link. What more nededs to be said? Not.


Too cool Dr. J.    

starkers
Reply #85 Thursday, August 14, 2008 3:33 PM
Zubaz just can't spell


I beg to differ... he's fluent in both Pig Latin and Zubish.

DrJBHL
Reply #86 Thursday, August 14, 2008 4:24 PM
Zubaz just can't spellI beg to differ... he's fluent in both Pig Latin and Zubish.


LOL! We rag him too much. Really.

Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

For xmas I'm getting him a spell checker. Named Starkers!

RadialFX
Reply #87 Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:03 PM
Whew.....not a peep yet today! I did talk to the counselor and she told me that she called and set up the appointment. However, she did tell me that the letter doesn't define exactly what the appointment is about. Just that a copy had also been sent to the DHS and if she chose not to respond that the DHS would respond with a follow-up visit. I'll keep you posted. RAD

RadialFX
Reply #88 Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:04 PM
Oh also, you guys need to get off Zubaz's back! He can't help it! LOL RAD

ZubaZ
Reply #89 Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:18 PM
For xmas I'm getting him a spell checker. Named Starkers!
Instaead of that, get me this instead.  it'd look great with teh Stardock earring AND would emabarrass my wife.
Oh also, you guys need to get off Zubaz's back! He can't help it!
Just one more example of RadialFX being a compassionate fiend.

starkers
Reply #90 Friday, August 15, 2008 1:05 AM
For xmas I'm getting him a spell checker. Named Starkers!


Oh no! Just don't think I could handle all the arguments....

"Er, Zubs, me old mate, that's not spelled right!"

"So waht! It lokks funnire dnoe in Zubish."

it'd look great with teh Stardock earring AND would emabarrass my wife.


What???? Are you not satisfied with embarrassing her by looking like a Spinal Tap reject in those skin tight zebra skin pants, Gothic studded G-strings on the outside and knee-high stiletto boots with the Stardock logo inlays on the front???

Yup, I can see you having to go to the mall by yourself in the future.

zakai1369
Reply #91 Friday, August 15, 2008 1:05 AM
Oh also, you guys need to get off Zubaz's back!


Yeah! You guys better be careful. One of these days you're going to log onto the WC home page and Zubaz will have taken over.




ZubaZ
Reply #92 Friday, August 15, 2008 1:10 AM
those skin tight zebra skin pants, Gothic studded G-strings on the outside and knee-high stiletto boots with the Stardock logo inlays on the front??
Baby . .I go to 11.  Every.single. time.
Yeah! You guys better be careful. One of these days you're going to log onto the WC home page and Zubaz will have taken over.
Now that is funny as hell.

starkers
Reply #93 Friday, August 15, 2008 2:04 AM
Baby . .I go to 11. Every.single. time.


Really!!! Would have thought the volume would have been at least twice that... given the rather 'loud' gear you dress up in.

RadialFX
Reply #94 Friday, August 15, 2008 2:09 AM
It's only there for when he needs that little extra, just a little more push to get him over the edge. Why not just make 10 the top........his go to 11! LOL

starkers
Reply #95 Friday, August 15, 2008 2:15 AM
So why go to 11?

" Cos ten is ten... and eleven... well it's just louder, innit!"

DrJBHL
Reply #96 Friday, August 15, 2008 7:19 AM
I have taken the Z.A. (Zubaz Anonymous) Pledge.
That's it. No matter how outrageous the grammar or spelling, no comment from me.
Aaron is one of the nicest folks around and I'm thinking that some folks might misinterpret what I write about his posts.

RadFX, Thanks for keeping us up to date. Sounds like your Counselor has a good way
of approaching this situation. Yeah, I would say goodbye and good luck to her. You'd always be wondering what she was doing with her kids and/or yours.

Proud of you, Rad. You did the right thing for all involved...maybe it'll take time for her to see that...until then, there are many other zip codes for you... .



Jafo
Reply #97 Friday, August 15, 2008 7:45 AM

Aaron is one of the nicest folks around and I'm thinking that some folks might misinterpret what I write about his posts.

Oh,...he's OK...or in Zubish he's KO ....


DrJBHL
Reply #98 Friday, August 15, 2008 10:39 AM
Oh no! As I feared. Jafo has joined the Hive...assimilated!

starkers
Reply #99 Friday, August 15, 2008 11:09 AM
Oh no! As I feared. Jafo has joined the Hive.


I am Jafo of Borg... refusing to assimilate those zebra striped pants.

Wizard1956
Reply #100 Friday, August 15, 2008 12:08 PM
RadialFX being a compassionate fiend.


ZubaZ strikes again!Laughing 20

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