Opinions needed and much appreciated....
Saturday, March 6, 2004 by Matchbook | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
I have a friend.... a lady friend, and she's currently in an abusive relationship [far from here, nothing I can do except talk to her...] As far as the abuse? I don't feel at liberty to say the extent of it, just that it does/has occured. [I don't know all of the details anyhow..]
She knows she should leave this guy, says she WANTS to leave this guy, but for months now simply hasn't done so.
She cited the reason[s] as that she's too frightened he might get violent and/or she feels responsible for his feelings [should he become depressed or whatever..]
So, how can I convince her that by leaving him she'd be making the RIGHT decision? I asked in here because I know you are all a great bunch, and great at being impartial... and I am hoping that if this gets enough of a response it might help her out in making her decision, because there's safety in numbers - and the more people who agree with me OR have advice for her, the better. [and more likely she will be to TAKE that advice]
What do you all think?
Thanks for reading....
She knows she should leave this guy, says she WANTS to leave this guy, but for months now simply hasn't done so.
She cited the reason[s] as that she's too frightened he might get violent and/or she feels responsible for his feelings [should he become depressed or whatever..]
So, how can I convince her that by leaving him she'd be making the RIGHT decision? I asked in here because I know you are all a great bunch, and great at being impartial... and I am hoping that if this gets enough of a response it might help her out in making her decision, because there's safety in numbers - and the more people who agree with me OR have advice for her, the better. [and more likely she will be to TAKE that advice]
What do you all think?
Thanks for reading....
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Reply #21 Monday, March 8, 2004 11:25 AM