How do you mend a broken heart?
Thursday, September 25, 2003 by Angel_Wings | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
> Maybe one day I'll figure out how...
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Doreen
Reply #62 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:07 AM
Reply #62 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:07 AM
oh I let my emotions exist believe me... hehe
I just choose not to let them distroy me I choose to let them build & flavor me
I just choose not to let them distroy me I choose to let them build & flavor me
IPlural
Reply #63 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:13 AM
Reply #63 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:13 AM
Chocolate? 
mmmm, miz Doreen is Chocolate flavored?
back, everyone....
you too feline kitty and take the fuzzy hairy thing with you >
hmmmmmm? is choclate?
mmmm, miz Doreen is Chocolate flavored?
back, everyone....
you too feline kitty and take the fuzzy hairy thing with you >
hmmmmmm? is choclate?
Doreen
Reply #64 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:20 AM
Reply #64 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:20 AM
hmmm now you got me thinking if I was a flavor what flavor would I be?
prob somethng most would spit out cuz they could never figure out? hehe
prob somethng most would spit out cuz they could never figure out? hehe
Doreen
Reply #65 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:22 AM
Reply #65 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:22 AM
IP I think it's said that boys be expected to be strong all the time, I think God gave both women and men tear ducts for a reason but it's when men don't know how to control their emotions for the better that makes them weak, not that they show them but "how" they show them...
Doreen
Reply #66 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:23 AM
Reply #66 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:23 AM
said = sad
me no click edit buttons today, me is lazy
me no click edit buttons today, me is lazy
IPlural
Reply #67 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:45 AM
Reply #67 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:45 AM
yes it does, not allowing them, forgetting them, pushing them away, it makes one less than what they should be, human(humane?) in a sence...
Tiggz
Reply #69 Saturday, September 27, 2003 9:54 AM
That is one of the truest, most simple things I have heard in a long time...and good advice for anyone, not just those who are in pain.
Reply #69 Saturday, September 27, 2003 9:54 AM
| Pictoratus - Shmoopy, remember the first person you ever loved? It was you. Take time to love yourself, again. |
That is one of the truest, most simple things I have heard in a long time...and good advice for anyone, not just those who are in pain.
SelfExiled
Reply #70 Saturday, September 27, 2003 12:12 PM
Reply #70 Saturday, September 27, 2003 12:12 PM
Hi Shmoopy,
You gave me some good advice a while ago and I think it might help you too. Start skinning and take your mind off men.
But, men can be emotional too. I was raised by my mother who was strong, loving and emotional. She told me that there was nothing wrong with crying or showing someone that you care. I'm a sucker for a good love story (in a dark theatre. lol.). Because its true, that guys will think you are weak, and I don't want to fight at my age and probably end up in jail for cripplingly or mortally wounding someone. But, I bodybuild and studied martial arts, so most guys don't bother me. So, don't think that all guys let women hurt inside, or can't show their emotions. I use to jump on people even here for mistreating or disrespecting the artists. My own hurt "feelings" made me take down everything I ever submitted here(Something that I do regret). Quite emotional and sensitive, huh?
The problem with men in general is that they tend to show a aggressive emotions more than non-aggressive emotions. I've never hit a lady in my life and never will. If a discussion turns to argument, I go out and have a drink. I think it is a coward who would hit a lady. I have worked very hard to control my aggressive emotions. I don't suppressive them though. I focus them in positive ways such as working out or Martial Arts. Yet, there is nothing I enjoy more than cuddling with a woman.
You gave me some good advice a while ago and I think it might help you too. Start skinning and take your mind off men.
But, men can be emotional too. I was raised by my mother who was strong, loving and emotional. She told me that there was nothing wrong with crying or showing someone that you care. I'm a sucker for a good love story (in a dark theatre. lol.). Because its true, that guys will think you are weak, and I don't want to fight at my age and probably end up in jail for cripplingly or mortally wounding someone. But, I bodybuild and studied martial arts, so most guys don't bother me. So, don't think that all guys let women hurt inside, or can't show their emotions. I use to jump on people even here for mistreating or disrespecting the artists. My own hurt "feelings" made me take down everything I ever submitted here(Something that I do regret). Quite emotional and sensitive, huh?
The problem with men in general is that they tend to show a aggressive emotions more than non-aggressive emotions. I've never hit a lady in my life and never will. If a discussion turns to argument, I go out and have a drink. I think it is a coward who would hit a lady. I have worked very hard to control my aggressive emotions. I don't suppressive them though. I focus them in positive ways such as working out or Martial Arts. Yet, there is nothing I enjoy more than cuddling with a woman.
Raithe
Reply #71 Saturday, September 27, 2003 12:25 PM
Reply #71 Saturday, September 27, 2003 12:25 PM
Actually scientest say that while men do have emotions - they can never be as intense as a womens because of the fact that women have a larger more evolved emotion center in their brain. I am not of course expressing my opinion, merely stating what I have heard! But it is true that men are conditioned more to repress their emotions and that is a definate key factor.
IPlural
Reply #72 Saturday, September 27, 2003 1:21 PM
Reply #72 Saturday, September 27, 2003 1:21 PM
aardvark !
OK ok, "sense" dang second languages...
I speak Americanize fluently
OK ok, "sense" dang second languages...
I speak Americanize fluently
Angel_Wings
Reply #73 Saturday, September 27, 2003 2:07 PM
Reply #73 Saturday, September 27, 2003 2:07 PM
Doreen I struggle with my own demons every day but I'm stronger for it luckily and not weaker (I refuse to let them destroy me). 
I'm not sad...in fact most the time I'm fairly happy-go-lucky. I always try to see the positive in every negative sitch. For instance...when I'm in a long line at a grocery store checkout...I think...perhaps this time spent saved me from a bad car accident. Things like that have happened in my life...where some awful accident happened just a few minutes before I'd have been in the same place had it not been for me waiting in some line.
Chickie...speaking of emotions and crying...I cry ugly...REAL ugly! You know how some people cry but they sort of keep their cool and manage to still look half-sane he-he? Not me! I cry with my face all scrunched up and I wail from way down deep (those awful gutteral cries) and I look and sound positively scary! I think a good cry is almost primal in nature. After all...babies let it ALL out with no holds barred. It's our social conditioning which keeps our emotions and feelings in check [somewhat] which is why I could never stand communal living of any sort...I need my private space to just be me and wail like a wild banshee if need be.
Oh...and Chas...I have absolutely no inspiration right now to skin anything...I've been too pooped out in the art-dept. but I figure it will come back in time. I need to renew my OD account soon speaking of...
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I struggle with my own demons every day but I'm stronger for it luckily and not weaker (I refuse to let them destroy me). 
I'm not sad...in fact most the time I'm fairly happy-go-lucky. I always try to see the positive in every negative sitch. For instance...when I'm in a long line at a grocery store checkout...I think...perhaps this time spent saved me from a bad car accident. Things like that have happened in my life...where some awful accident happened just a few minutes before I'd have been in the same place had it not been for me waiting in some line. Chickie...speaking of emotions and crying...I cry ugly...REAL ugly!
You know how some people cry but they sort of keep their cool and manage to still look half-sane he-he? Not me! I cry with my face all scrunched up and I wail from way down deep (those awful gutteral cries) and I look and sound positively scary! I think a good cry is almost primal in nature. After all...babies let it ALL out with no holds barred. It's our social conditioning which keeps our emotions and feelings in check [somewhat] which is why I could never stand communal living of any sort...I need my private space to just be me and wail like a wild banshee if need be. Oh...and Chas...I have absolutely no inspiration right now to skin anything...I've been too pooped out in the art-dept. but I figure it will come back in time. I need to renew my OD account soon speaking of...
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CerebroJD
Reply #74 Saturday, September 27, 2003 2:12 PM
Reply #74 Saturday, September 27, 2003 2:12 PM
Shmoopy is happy-go-lucky? We must be talking about different people here. Just kidding! You are pretty cheerful around here from what I've seen. You might cry ugly but you smile beautiful. So just smile and look in the mirror alot and I doubt you could resist the power of your own cheerful grin.
Angel_Wings
Reply #75 Saturday, September 27, 2003 2:16 PM
Reply #75 Saturday, September 27, 2003 2:16 PM
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You trying to make me blush?
Angel_Wings gives everyone a big hug and a silly lopsided smile and yells out "P-A-R-T-WHY? Cuz I gotta!"
You trying to make me blush?
Angel_Wings gives everyone a big hug and a silly lopsided smile and yells out "P-A-R-T-WHY? Cuz I gotta!"
Doreen
Reply #76 Saturday, September 27, 2003 3:07 PM
Reply #76 Saturday, September 27, 2003 3:07 PM
Good Angela Demons be gone! hehe
stay happy
(and me only cries in the dark cuz I'm shy) hehe!
crying is healthy, just a vent like other things...
stay happy
(and me only cries in the dark cuz I'm shy) hehe!
crying is healthy, just a vent like other things...
snarph
Reply #77 Saturday, September 27, 2003 3:58 PM
Reply #77 Saturday, September 27, 2003 3:58 PM
Hearts don't realy get broken they just get teriblely smushed. Any way you just got yo yo yo like a hip Santa . Remember that un requited love is just that. Im 52 and would not do that to sme one only 37. Kinda snarphy aint it
any way thats what I think Hope you doing ok I still got an email address
any way thats what I think Hope you doing ok I still got an email address
Chickie
Reply #79 Saturday, September 27, 2003 6:54 PM
Reply #79 Saturday, September 27, 2003 6:54 PM
My father in law passed this morning. 
I'm doing ok. Kyle saw him last night alive. Now, my father in law is gone. He had cancer. My in-laws are doing ok. He's in heaven with GOD.
I'm doing ok. Kyle saw him last night alive. Now, my father in law is gone. He had cancer. My in-laws are doing ok. He's in heaven with GOD.
Doreen
Reply #80 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:44 PM
Reply #80 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:44 PM
Chickie I'm happy to hear Kyle was able to see him last night that was good... and now he is in peace, you take care of yourself I'm sure your husband and mother in law are going to need you to be strong...
Doreen sends you some strength...
(Take care Chickie okay)
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Doreen sends you some strength...
(Take care Chickie okay)
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Reply #61 Saturday, September 27, 2003 7:06 AM
you need to let whatever happened in your past go already so you can get living now and enjoy what life you have now and today...
I have family members alot older than me that I watched that wasted alot of years on playing the victim of past horrors, when I had a few horrors myself (sheesh who does not?) but each bad experience builds your charactor more (if you let it instead of letting it distroy you and ruin your life so stop it)