Anyone recently have a Birthday?
Monday, March 24, 2003 by The Rated PG | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
Happy Birthday to you if you have 
Mine was yesterday. 29 
Mine was yesterday. 29 
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IPlural
Reply #102 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:13 AM
Reply #102 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:13 AM
please ignore the spelling and grammatical mistakes...
I did not run a spell check for the reason that it would change my post, and I did/do not want it changed, it is real for me mistakes and all....
anyway
I did not run a spell check for the reason that it would change my post, and I did/do not want it changed, it is real for me mistakes and all....
anyway
JamMeister33
Reply #103 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:24 AM
Reply #103 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:24 AM
MrGupps, please don't even consider suicide. My brother recently hanged himself while going through a nasty divorce. His son, myself, my entire family was devastated by this. You have no concept of the pain and anguish and guilt that is caused by someone killing themselves. The ones left behing have to bear the burden of all of this hurt. It's not worth it MrGupps, you are as important as anyone else and taking your life is NOT an option. Please stop thinking in this manner. If you need someone to talk to I would be more than happy to chat with you about anything you like.
JamMeister33
Reply #105 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:55 AM
Reply #105 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:55 AM
Thanks IP, some think so, some don't... but if I can help someone I am always willing to try.
Paul Williams
Reply #106 Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:38 PM
Reply #106 Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:38 PM
my birthday was yesterday-march 26.
i will not give my age.
to be honest- it was not that great. when you get older, birthdays do not seem that exciting anymore. 
i will not give my age.
to be honest- it was not that great. when you get older, birthdays do not seem that exciting anymore. 
Fuzzy Logic
Reply #107 Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:51 PM
Reply #107 Thursday, March 27, 2003 1:51 PM
I don't need a psychiatrist to tell me I'm nuts...
Birthday? Oh no, only 354 days till the next one - aaaaagh!
Birthday? Oh no, only 354 days till the next one - aaaaagh!
KarmaGirl
Reply #108 Thursday, March 27, 2003 2:14 PM
Reply #108 Thursday, March 27, 2003 2:14 PM
Mines not for another month and some change......don't care to think about it, though 
feline
Reply #109 Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:48 PM
Reply #109 Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:48 PM
MrGupps, there is very little i can add to what has already been said. if it helps, consider me. at school i was considered very intelligent, but did not do well at all. after school, university could have gone more smoothly 
i have very clear, and very painful, memories of just unpleasant life as a child at school can be. i will admit thoughts of suicide crossed my mind many times during those years *sigh*
instead, my simple suggestion is this. spend time here, at wincustomise, with us. it is a different world, where people care. you are what you make of yourself here. which school you went to makes no difference. here, this is a community, where if you spend time you will find people who can and will care deeply about you as a person, regardless of your marks at school.
this place, this group, these kind and caring people, they, us, we, offer community, friendship, companionship, someone to talk to, and someone who will be there when you need them.
if that doesn't make like worth living, then there is always chocolate! that is the subject for a slightly less serious post though
i have very clear, and very painful, memories of just unpleasant life as a child at school can be. i will admit thoughts of suicide crossed my mind many times during those years *sigh*
instead, my simple suggestion is this. spend time here, at wincustomise, with us. it is a different world, where people care. you are what you make of yourself here. which school you went to makes no difference. here, this is a community, where if you spend time you will find people who can and will care deeply about you as a person, regardless of your marks at school.
this place, this group, these kind and caring people, they, us, we, offer community, friendship, companionship, someone to talk to, and someone who will be there when you need them.
if that doesn't make like worth living, then there is always chocolate! that is the subject for a slightly less serious post though
feline
Reply #110 Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:50 PM
Reply #110 Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:50 PM
Lady KarmaGirl - Mines not for another month and some change......don't care to think about it, though
feline thinks we need to do something to distract JavaBean
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lets feeder her coffee with chocolate sprinkles on top!
feline thinks we need to do something to distract JavaBean
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lets feeder her coffee with chocolate sprinkles on top!
IPlural
Reply #111 Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:59 PM
FL
feline very good peoples for sure and definitly proof there are people who do care without demanding anything for it...
Reply #111 Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:59 PM
FL feline very good peoples for sure and definitly proof there are people who do care without demanding anything for it...
IPlural
Reply #112 Thursday, March 27, 2003 6:05 PM
Reply #112 Thursday, March 27, 2003 6:05 PM
jam, eh, sometimes people miss the best of others without ever having the chance to see them.
Doesn't make them bad or anything, just mis informed, or left with only knowing part of the total person, their loss...
You are good people and worth the knowing also... Everyone needs at least one person to talk with, about those things keep close and hidden, sooner or later, you and many others here are more than willing and just as ready to be there for someone in need. That is something I would never question. But it does come at a price, depending on the outcome it can be small or be higher than many would even consider... McGupps could do much, much worse in finding a group of people than her ethat is for sure...
anyway...
Doesn't make them bad or anything, just mis informed, or left with only knowing part of the total person, their loss...
You are good people and worth the knowing also... Everyone needs at least one person to talk with, about those things keep close and hidden, sooner or later, you and many others here are more than willing and just as ready to be there for someone in need. That is something I would never question. But it does come at a price, depending on the outcome it can be small or be higher than many would even consider... McGupps could do much, much worse in finding a group of people than her ethat is for sure...
anyway...
JamMeister33
Reply #113 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:01 PM
Reply #113 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:01 PM
I agree IP+, MrGupps needs to know that he can fall back on us here for support because we will do whatever we can to ease him through his bad times... you're a good group of people IP, that's for sure... hehe..
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Reply #101 Thursday, March 27, 2003 10:11 AM
Sucide isn't a joke, it isn't nice and it isn't clean and it also is not going to cost the person who does it a damn thing, the one who ends up paying for it are those left behind. Your correct though it is a choice, a personal one that no one can take away from anyone. It is something that a person either comes to grips with and understands it is their choice, might even be the one thing that proves they have some kind of control, some personal power over their own existance when it seems that everyone close does everything in their power to take it away from them, but it is a multipart issue, it is not a single choice, but a string of choices. If someone where to act upon it without consider all the rest of the issues revolving around the final act, they sell them self short along with everyone else at the same time.
I've been on watch more than once over the years, my wife has been put through the ringer at least three times because of it, my son once ( which is something I wish beyond anything I could take back ). You need to decide, if your serious, at what price does such a choice come at, for you and others you care about, and figure out if it is worth it.
Sucide is still a choice for me, one that will never be taken from me, living is also, and that is my personal power, the power to decide that no matter what anyone does, what anyone expects out of me, what ever I feel I have failed at, my choice is my power over myself and the choice to live costs much less and returns much more than the choice to die...
anywy...
I won't bring it up again and I won't discuss it anymore either... Good luck whatever your reasons for broaching the sbuject and also in making your choice, I will say I hope it is the correct one for you, one thing to remember is life is fluid and changes for the good more often than not as time goes on, death is forever, there isn't any second chance and there is not any going back.
But I would leave it at the door whe nhere because it is not fair to anyone on this board to drag them into it or to put them in a position to decide if they can or will expend the enrgy or emotional price to be a part of it, let alone anyone who mught happen to be dealing with a suicide of a loved one or what have you....
just my personal pov...