How do you handle put-downs on your work?

Thursday, March 6, 2003 by Angel_Wings | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

So, I upload my second CursorXP cursor…and Mr. ‘Poohead’ (I deemed him that he-he) whom shall remain anonymous () is following me around (okay, it FEELS that way he-he) and putting down my new stuff I’m making like he’s god’s gift to animaton. It seems to me…some people truly have no conscience or concept or appreciation of ANYTHING. This guy is looking for perfection? Good luck! ! I see PLENTY of faults with my new stuff…I’m new at this…I’m trying my best and that’s all I can do until I polish my skills up.

Uh…and on a personal note…I made a typo on my Shaman Cursor comments and wrote Starcock rather than Stardock when I was just waking up. I will NOT live this down now!

Sowwy, Frogboy…here I was…exclaiming the greatness of CursorXP and I fumble!

Poo, I say…

Anyway, I know everyone’s work gets bashed on this site and why should I be any different, right? Right! It just sucks when people try to filibuster you with bad voojoo for no apparent reason other than just being a sore-sport!

---End of bitching---

(((((hugs to everyone))))


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KarmaGirl
Reply #101 Friday, March 7, 2003 2:38 PM
I didn't read this whole thing (because I'm lazy) but I will tell you a story:

I have worked at Stardock for almost 8 years. Most people who work here and chat with us every day are male. I use online communication all day long. The first time that I chatted on IRC I got thwaped around pretty bad by the "guys". At least I "felt" like that was what happened. So, I whined to my boss (Frogboy) and he told me something that I took to heart: "You need to get a thicker skin. They will only bug you if you let them." And, it's the truth.

The problem that I have with this particular subject is: the comments were constructive criticism, not "put-downs" as you took it. This person took the time to give examples of points of your work that could be improved. That is what the comments are all about. They aren't for the "this rocks" or "this sucks", they are for people to respond with ways to help artists improve their work.

Now, what I *do* find offensive is how you reacted. Anyone with the IQ of a cucumber can figure out who you are calling ‘Poohead’. So, you resorted to calling somebody a name just because they commented on your work in a way that you didn't agree with. Which is more offensive: making a comment about a theme, or personally attacking somebody? (just think about that one.)

Actually, the most offensive thing was the "Starcock" reference....reminds me of when one of our Stardock Magazines went out featuring "ObjectBra"
Angel_Wings
Reply #102 Friday, March 7, 2003 3:12 PM
Hmm. Okay, point taken, Karmagirl. TY for your imput!

I removed Shaman. At the very least, the offending 'Starcock' is gone.

Back to ye old drawing-board!

Angel_Wings is giggling about ObjectBra!

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KarmaGirl
Reply #103 Friday, March 7, 2003 3:17 PM
(The "Starcock" being offensive was a joke, just in case anybody didn't get it....we've heard it all...trust me.....)
da_zman20
Reply #104 Friday, March 7, 2003 3:30 PM
where can you buy one of these object bra's??? do they support interactive transperancy??? ha ha ha... had to ask... don't kill me...

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paxx
Reply #105 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:23 PM
Schmoopy, why did you remove Shaman?

You really need to get a grip.
DarkMist
Reply #106 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:29 PM
Both have been removed
Keila
Reply #107 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:39 PM
No they haven't, Orion's View is still there.


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DarkMist
Reply #108 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:41 PM
Wasn't when i looked. unless its changed pages.
Angel_Wings
Reply #109 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:44 PM
I only removed Shaman. I'm working on 5 other cursors off and on...but I'm being real careful and picky, picky, picky.

Hey, Paxx. I have a grip. I'm in a great mood!

Now lemme get back to tweakin'

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kthxbye
Reply #110 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:46 PM
I give it a 9.5? Oh - and if this new cursor set's only for the girls, whatcha gonna do if I decide to use it when it makes its appearance, huh? Huh?


Angel_Wings
Reply #111 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:46 PM
Dark, it's here... https://www.wincustomize.com/skins.asp?library=25&SkinID=331



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Angel_Wings
Reply #112 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:47 PM
kthxbye ! Hmmmmm. You like purdy flowers eh?

The other cursor I'm doing is really tiny and blue...but the text thingy is driving me bonkers...getting it right.

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DarkMist
Reply #113 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:51 PM
Thanks Shmoop's

Ummm what is it exactly your tweakin?
Angel_Wings
Reply #114 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:56 PM
Not my nose hairs anyway!

Just some cursors in the works.

They all look really different from each other...

Sometimes I get some really outlandish ideas (like my idea of a little girl swinging on a swing at the end of your cursor when it's in busy mode). Silly!

Angel_Wings must report back to her leader now...

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kthxbye
Reply #115 Friday, March 7, 2003 4:58 PM
There's nothing at all wrong with flowers! Especially if they're purdy ones.

Purdy is purdy - doesn't matter if you're a guy or a girl - and darnit, I'm not ashamed to say that!
DarkMist
Reply #116 Friday, March 7, 2003 5:07 PM
Some flowers have hidden suprises.........like nasty bees or creepy crawlys
snarph
Reply #117 Friday, March 7, 2003 5:13 PM
still the bell of controversy. like the man said you got the talent now you just need a few more silly milimeters of hide.
snarph
Reply #118 Friday, March 7, 2003 5:14 PM
oh yea i like reviewing at all hours
IPlural
Reply #119 Friday, March 7, 2003 7:16 PM
ahhh, ok, turn around, sheessh, I know it'll be hard... ah, mmm

nope, not me


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Peff
Reply #120 Friday, March 7, 2003 7:22 PM
Hey shmoopy...make sure you get the animations right....

I don't think I could read another one of these threads without slitting my own throat!!

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