No ego...

Saturday, March 8, 2008 by Skinhit | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

Just something I've been thinking about...Do you live with or without ego? Now granted,there's a tad of ego is in everyone...But my question is, do you let it motivate you, do you let it speak for you? I've noticed so much lately, that operating without ego allows you to meet people where they are, allows you to empower them, allows you to motivate, and better than that, allows you to "just be". I challenge you to think about it...What do you have to lose?
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HG_Eliminator
Reply #1 Saturday, March 8, 2008 1:48 AM
I used to have an Ego.. But my wife took it away.... apparently I was not qualified to handle it correctly..
killajosh
Reply #2 Saturday, March 8, 2008 1:58 AM
I gave up on my ego years ago. I believe that once you give up the ego and drop the pretenses you are living under, life is much simpler. And all it took was me losing almost everything and everyone......

"Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall." (Proverbs 16:18)
Skinhit
Reply #3 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:01 AM
And all it took was me losing almost everything and everyone......


Thanks Killajosh...This is exactly what I would like to see stopped...
Vampothika
Reply #4 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:08 AM
my bi polar alter ego (mr hyde) is safely tucked away in the back of my mind this year.......i am determined to be a nice person, not fly off the handle, not stir the pot OR rock the boat....my goal is just to try to help people with skinning problems....and encourage everyone here at the community .  
zakai1369
Reply #5 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:08 AM
Isnt thinking you are "above" having an ego kind of egotistical?
Skinhit
Reply #6 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:10 AM
No one is above ego...see orinial post
Now granted,there's a tad of ego is in everyone...But my question is, do you let it motivate you, do you let it speak for you?


Herein lies the message...
Vampothika
Reply #7 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:10 AM
i tried to edit my post but i couldt......thanks for posting this Jack, i really appreciate it, it made me think too.........   
Skinhit
Reply #8 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:11 AM
trouble editing as well...thanks for responding Kitty
Vampothika
Reply #9 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:11 AM
my alter ego used to control every thing i did......this yeah.....nuh uh! no way, a more posative outlook for meh (hope that answers your question)
HG_Eliminator
Reply #10 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:12 AM
True reflection upon ones self is always for the better. Ego is only natural and when we are in control of it, can be a very motivating force. It is when we loose control of it and let it control us, that it's destructive nature is revealed.

We all have a bit of Ego, the question is do we control it or does it control us? The answer to that question, is the defining factor
Skinhit
Reply #11 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:14 AM
I dont really have a question that needs answering...just a question I'm asking myself, and thought it was worth sharing...
Vampothika
Reply #12 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:14 AM
you should share more......i luv it......  
Skinhit
Reply #13 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:17 AM
It's just amazing what the power of selflessness can do. An ability to work for a common goal.
HG_Eliminator
Reply #14 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:20 AM
It's just amazing what the power of selflessness can do. An ability to work for a common goal.



I see it here on the forums every day, folks all pitching in to help each other out.. Its a great feeling of acomplishment when it all works out.
killajosh
Reply #15 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:30 AM
kitty, I know all about being bipolar. I was diagnosed when I was 17. And the "other" Josh, the one with the REAL ego trip...well, I still have to deal with that asshole sometimes. But like you, kitty....

my bi polar alter ego (mr hyde) is safely tucked away in the back of my mind this year


RadialFX
Reply #16 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:31 AM
My ex-wife got my ego in our divorce! Seriously, this is a really great post Skinhit. I've always tried to relate "Healthy" ego to confidence in combination with selflessness. "Unhealthy" ego to over-confident along with arrogant. I don't know if that's anywhere near rational (that went with the ex too!) it's was just my way of relating to the difference.
Excalpius
Reply #17 Saturday, March 8, 2008 2:51 AM
My ego has made me an unreasonable man. I have changed the world because of it.
ArileenDesign
Reply #18 Saturday, March 8, 2008 3:24 AM
Do you live with or without ego?


Well it's human everyone has an ego, the difference is in the size of it

AS Radial my ex-wife got it in our divorce... thought not that i'd a big one before....

Fuzzy Logic
Reply #19 Saturday, March 8, 2008 5:26 AM
I don't have an ego - a god has no need for one...
Jafo
Reply #20 Saturday, March 8, 2008 6:25 AM

My Ego took my Karma and ran over my Dogma...

Isn't an Ego a sub-compact made in Korea?....

Egos are fine....but they just need to be kept on a short leash.

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