Zubaz on "This I Believe"

A series on NPR

Friday, November 16, 2007 by ZubaZ | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

Wow! Just wow.

I just got an email from the local National Public Radio affiliate asking me to come down and record an essay I wrote for their series "This I Believe". What an exciting honor! And the best part? No one can see my misspellings on the radio.

"Greetings Mr. Klenke
As you probably know, 88.7 FM, KUHF-Houston Public Radio is partnering with NPR on many projects. We're now teaming up with NPR to present local segments of "This I Believe". NPR has forwarded the essay you submitted and I'd like to schedule a time when you can come to the KUHF Studios and record your "This I Believe" essay for our local radio series.

I think your essay is great and believe it would be a great radio piece for our listeners to enjoy."

And my essay:

How many times have you heard this conversation?

‘‘How’s it going?’’ "It’s Monday." Or "‘Thank God it’s Friday.’’ Or "At least it’s payday’’

For years I heard people answer that question with those answers or not even pay attention to the question and respond with an ‘‘OK’’ in passing. I actually found myself doing the same thing more often than not.

One day I realized that I was tired of the life I was leading myself into. Part of it was probably related to hearing the Dave Ramsey radio program. When asked by a caller how he was doing he answered ‘‘Better than I deserve.’’ He thought about his response.

So I decided to start doing the same thing and answering questions with real thought.

I decided to be positive. I started out by thinking about the things that were making my life less than it should have been. I found that my life was pretty good. I have an awesome family. A job I love. Friends. Leisure time. Hobbies. I have a good life. The things in my days that were negative were fleeting.

After some introspection, I found that amongst time with family, time working, time sleeping, and general crappy-ness, most of my day was good. Very little was THAT bad. Most days are good days.

Then I made an internal scale of days. A great day is a day that has a child’s birth. Another great day was my wife accepting my marriage proposal. The terrible day on my scale is the death of my little sister. She was born on my birthday and was the best gift I ever got or will ever get.

I know it’s possible to have worse days. I’m sure mine can’t compare with some. But that’s my current scale.

So now, when people ask me how I am doing or a related question, I stop and think about the day so far. I think about my expectations for the rest of the day. I think about my scale. And I answer, ‘‘Today is a good day.’’

It’s amazing how many people stop after hearing that response. Then they ask me why. It’s easy to find something that made today good. Some days it may be that I woke up alive again. I have days like that too.

I’ve been doing this for a few months now. And I am hearing other people say it now. And I am seeing people smile when they say it; when they hear it.

The real point is that I am reminded by my own response every time I say it.

I believe that today is a good day.

How cool is that? I'll post the recordign when I can.

We all have different measures of success here at WC. If I can improve one person's life by hearing this I'll chalk this up as a success.
I wanted to share this with you all because . . you know . . we're family.

UPDATE 2008-02-01: The essay is now live.  You can hear it here
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Philly0381
Reply #1 Friday, November 16, 2007 3:29 PM
Congrats to you Zubaz.   

You do know that the down side of misspelling words is that you will then slip into mispronouncing them! No added pressure here.   
ZubaZ
Reply #2 Friday, November 16, 2007 3:34 PM
Thank goodness it's not live.

"This I believe . . take 357!"    
2of3
Reply #3 Friday, November 16, 2007 3:35 PM
I’ve been doing this for a few months now. And I am hearing other people say it now. And I am seeing people smile when they say it; when they hear it.


It's amazing how many people ask "How are you" and don't expect a real responds. Keep it up..... let's shake up the "norm"
unclerob
Reply #4 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:20 PM
Dude... or should I say... "Zub!" (pronounced Zoooob!)
- you have some decent writing skills, have you written anything else, I wouldn't mind reading it if you're willing to share it.

Nice job on that essay, I can see why it was chosen - it's good!
messiah1
Reply #5 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:36 PM
I read this on your personal page and thought that it was absolutely true. I myself was guilty of the "pad" answer or even no answer. I now try to answer each person that asks me and I find myself asking more folks how they are. So you made a difference here bud! Thanks.   
ZubaZ
Reply #6 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:45 PM
you have some decent writing skills, have you written anything else, I wouldn't mind reading it if you're willing to share it.
My writing skills are uneave to say the least.
There are a few links on my blog that I am proud of.  You could take a look at them or just poke around.
2of3
Reply #7 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:52 PM
My writing skills are uneave to say the least.


messiah1
Reply #8 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:52 PM
I especially like your Magic Water.
NightTrainthedark
Reply #9 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:54 PM
This I believe is good news. Congrats!
fontinalis
Reply #10 Friday, November 16, 2007 4:56 PM
Quite an honor in my opinion, and thanks for the positive vibes. If anybody wants to read more essays on "This I believe" here is the NPR link WWW Link. Have a great weekend!
ZubaZ
Reply #11 Friday, November 16, 2007 5:38 PM
My writing skills are uneave to say the least.
-sigh-
eieio
Reply #12 Friday, November 16, 2007 7:46 PM
I hope you see this as an honor. Be assured that it is indeed that!   
vStyler
Reply #13 Friday, November 16, 2007 7:54 PM
good job buddy.   
sViz
Reply #14 Friday, November 16, 2007 7:58 PM
Wow! Congratulations, Zubaz! Wonderful essay.   
Shadowalker
Reply #15 Friday, November 16, 2007 8:37 PM
Nice article Zubaz, really made me think. Congratulations!
Xiandi
Reply #16 Saturday, November 17, 2007 5:23 PM
I can see why this was picked by them for the radio show. It really makes you THINK about how we relate to others. I deal with people all day at work, I answer with "fine" and "OK" all day long. I need to get better answers.

Congrats and Thanks Zubaz!  
Phoon
Reply #17 Saturday, November 17, 2007 5:43 PM
dang! you wrote all of that without any drastic fat finger episodes to give of fodder for messing with you! It was indeed... a good day!
This is fantastic and I must indeed try my best to remember it in my daily routine. Thanks for it.  
Alternate Setting
Reply #18 Sunday, November 18, 2007 12:08 AM
How cool is that?


It's very cool - congratulations Zubaz

Sosiosh
Reply #19 Sunday, November 18, 2007 1:28 AM
Well, it's an hour and a half into this day and it is good thanks to you Zubaz
Jafo
Reply #20 Sunday, November 18, 2007 5:26 AM

Zubaz's keyboard cries every time he comes close....

 

"please don't, Zu....we know in which order we are needed to make/spell words....let us do it....."

 

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