I'm So Sorry
Wednesday, March 28, 2007 by ArileenDesign | Discussion: Community
Hi dear
I'll go to be less active for a moment, that means i'll make my possible to be present and happytroll, but it's happened a bad thing in my life.
Somebody know i have problems with my wife now it's solve no more mater she leave me for the good with our daughter. The Best here is she can't leave the house for a long time (money problems) and we must live together for the moment.
I love her and i'm really sad my heart is broken and it's really hard to talk about it.
So i'm really sorry for that and if it happen that i no answer you quickly now you know why...
My feeling at this time:
I'll go to be less active for a moment, that means i'll make my possible to be present and happytroll, but it's happened a bad thing in my life.
Somebody know i have problems with my wife now it's solve no more mater she leave me for the good with our daughter. The Best here is she can't leave the house for a long time (money problems) and we must live together for the moment.
I love her and i'm really sad my heart is broken and it's really hard to talk about it.
So i'm really sorry for that and if it happen that i no answer you quickly now you know why...
My feeling at this time:
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Double Zero
Reply #22 Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:05 PM
Reply #22 Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:05 PM
Quentin, hang in there...allot of times things really do work out for the better, even when you dont think they ever will..
Stay positive & hang tough...
Stay positive & hang tough...
cf51802
Reply #23 Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:37 PM
Reply #23 Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:37 PM
Quentin...I haqve had the same expirience and I know your pain is great right now but I promise you that in time you will look back on this and say to yourself...I am a stronger man because of this...Hang in there
ArileenDesign
Reply #24 Thursday, March 29, 2007 3:10 PM
Reply #24 Thursday, March 29, 2007 3:10 PM
Thank you so much all for these words so kind
I'm sad and there are no possibility to solve this mater. Maybe with some time i can see the future in an other way but at this time i can't. I still loving her and that break a lot my heart. Now i think to my daughter she not need this at 20 month she need a happy father and i try to be that.
I want to say that i'm not here with this post to tell you that i leave this place, i stay here and read/write post make some staff just maybe less. And with less happiness that's all. here it's a too good place to leave it. It's always (ok one or two days not) a place where i can find a way to make me smile and at this time i need a lot of this.
I'm really sorry Bebi, it mean i'm not sorry to be sad but sorry cause i can't to be a happy friend. And to talk about this. It's not really me to talk about my feels and moreover in public.
Jafo yes i agree family come first and it's the case here but to keep a little smile i can't leave here or my fun work (i don't talk about my real work) this is also important for me.
Po' i'm very impressive by your french and i appreciate a lot you take the time to talk me in my language it's really kind.
For all others i can't forget your kindness too. your words stay in my heart.
I'm sad and there are no possibility to solve this mater. Maybe with some time i can see the future in an other way but at this time i can't. I still loving her and that break a lot my heart. Now i think to my daughter she not need this at 20 month she need a happy father and i try to be that.
I want to say that i'm not here with this post to tell you that i leave this place, i stay here and read/write post make some staff just maybe less. And with less happiness that's all. here it's a too good place to leave it. It's always (ok one or two days not) a place where i can find a way to make me smile and at this time i need a lot of this.
I'm really sorry Bebi, it mean i'm not sorry to be sad but sorry cause i can't to be a happy friend. And to talk about this. It's not really me to talk about my feels and moreover in public.
Jafo yes i agree family come first and it's the case here but to keep a little smile i can't leave here or my fun work (i don't talk about my real work) this is also important for me.
Po' i'm very impressive by your french and i appreciate a lot you take the time to talk me in my language it's really kind.
For all others i can't forget your kindness too. your words stay in my heart.
ArileenDesign
Reply #25 Tuesday, April 17, 2007 12:35 PM
Reply #25 Tuesday, April 17, 2007 12:35 PM
Hi dear, that's the news:
First i'm feel better in fact after talk with many of my friends and her friends, my/her members of family i have learned many things and i have open my eyes for the good. I'm not here to bash her in public so i'll tell you the essential. She "joke" me and not support me since many month. this future divorce is in fact the better thing who can happened to me.
We have decided that we will make all we can to divorce quickly. We have decided many things. And now the only thing who miss us it's the money lol.
we need around 3000€ (it's the hardiest to find) for attorney and others things in the same order.
So in waiting to divorce we will live together (sh*t). When we will divorce, i'll take my own place, with a room for our daughter (when she will come at home an half of the week-end and holiday). I think to change of work in September to a night job on 3-4 night per week so i'll take more time for my daughter and more money. In an other part that will allow me to get time to study informatic and in 3-4 years to get a good job in this way and make of my passion my job
.
That's all for the moment if i know more things i will tell you them.
thanks a lot for all your support my friends.
Like i have said before i never forget this.
First i'm feel better in fact after talk with many of my friends and her friends, my/her members of family i have learned many things and i have open my eyes for the good. I'm not here to bash her in public so i'll tell you the essential. She "joke" me and not support me since many month. this future divorce is in fact the better thing who can happened to me.
We have decided that we will make all we can to divorce quickly. We have decided many things. And now the only thing who miss us it's the money lol.
we need around 3000€ (it's the hardiest to find) for attorney and others things in the same order.
So in waiting to divorce we will live together (sh*t). When we will divorce, i'll take my own place, with a room for our daughter (when she will come at home an half of the week-end and holiday). I think to change of work in September to a night job on 3-4 night per week so i'll take more time for my daughter and more money. In an other part that will allow me to get time to study informatic and in 3-4 years to get a good job in this way and make of my passion my job
.That's all for the moment if i know more things i will tell you them.
thanks a lot for all your support my friends.
Like i have said before i never forget this.
MySecret
Reply #26 Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:49 AM
Reply #26 Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:49 AM
Quentin I want to say that I am very proud of you. Making plans for you & your daughters future during such an emotional time is so very mature and shows you as a responsible adult & parent. I also appreciate that you do not bash her publicly regardless if you have reasons to do so.
You can hold your head high and know that you are strong enough for both yourself & your daughter to make an even better future. And with that confidence you will smile more and start to find a real peace in your heart my friend.
Thank you for sharing with us very personal things & the update and know that as your friends we will support you in both the good times & bad.
It's My Secret
You can hold your head high and know that you are strong enough for both yourself & your daughter to make an even better future. And with that confidence you will smile more and start to find a real peace in your heart my friend.
Thank you for sharing with us very personal things & the update and know that as your friends we will support you in both the good times & bad.
It's My Secret
ArileenDesign
Reply #27 Wednesday, April 18, 2007 9:25 AM
Reply #27 Wednesday, April 18, 2007 9:25 AM
I must be responsible for my daughter. I hope future will be better for me and her and i'll make all i can for that. Smile 
i'll try 
If i share this thing at beginning it's cause that touch my presence and activity on the web and i won't people and my friends believed that it was a goodbye, now if i have updated this it's to tell you my friends that you don't worry anymore for me (maybe you don't worried since the beginning )
The only good thing in what's happening in my life it's that allowed me to know who are my friends or not (on web and out here)
And i know now i have very good friends and i'll never forget this.
You know i'm here every time for my friends too when they need it.
too
i'll try 
If i share this thing at beginning it's cause that touch my presence and activity on the web and i won't people and my friends believed that it was a goodbye, now if i have updated this it's to tell you my friends that you don't worry anymore for me (maybe you don't worried since the beginning
)The only good thing in what's happening in my life it's that allowed me to know who are my friends or not (on web and out here)
And i know now i have very good friends and i'll never forget this.
You know i'm here every time for my friends too when they need it.
too 
DulakQuickleaf
Reply #29 Thursday, April 19, 2007 1:53 AM
Reply #29 Thursday, April 19, 2007 1:53 AM
Hey man I hate that for you. I myself am in a similar situation... My woman just left for basic training and I won't see her for 8 months... I'm just hoping that she'll want me when she comes back home.
Uvah
Reply #30 Thursday, April 19, 2007 3:19 AM
Reply #30 Thursday, April 19, 2007 3:19 AM
Be strong my friend...Life is too precious...for you...your daughter...your wife. Be strong and all will be well. Remember family is here and family we will always be. Anytime you need to talk I'll be here with everyone else to listen. I myself have experienced the pain of loss. In time all things work out for the better. Remember all things happen for a reason even though that reason may seem unclear. Trust in yourself and keep the faith with your daughter. Good luck my friend and god bless.
ArileenDesign
Reply #31 Thursday, April 19, 2007 3:33 AM
I hope for you too and thanks a lot for this nice words.
We love you too Skinhit
Really thank you so much Uvah. i try to make the good choices, and to be good. My daughter is my little diamond i want to take care of her.
God bless you and you all.
Reply #31 Thursday, April 19, 2007 3:33 AM
...I'm just hoping that she'll want me when she comes back home.
I hope for you too and thanks a lot for this nice words.
we love you Quentin....
We love you too Skinhit
Be strong my friend...Life is too precious...for you...your daughter...your wife. Be strong and all will be well. Remember family is here and family we will always be. Anytime you need to talk I'll be here with everyone else to listen. I myself have experienced the pain of loss. In time all things work out for the better. Remember all things happen for a reason even though that reason may seem unclear. Trust in yourself and keep the faith with your daughter. Good luck my friend and god bless.
Really thank you so much Uvah. i try to make the good choices, and to be good. My daughter is my little diamond i want to take care of her.
God bless you and you all.
seldomseen
Reply #32 Thursday, April 19, 2007 10:37 AM
Reply #32 Thursday, April 19, 2007 10:37 AM
Quentin: Just found this thread. Some one once told me, "Share the pain and it's halved...share the joy, and it's doubled". Take care of yourself, above all. Steel must go thru the fire to become fire-tempered. May God Bless all three of you, and especially your daughter. You will be more, because of this. Holding you in our thoughts, mon ami. Peace.
ArileenDesign
Reply #33 Thursday, April 19, 2007 11:30 AM
Reply #33 Thursday, April 19, 2007 11:30 AM
thank you so much my friend you are really nice and good with me since the beginning. really thanks
sydneysiders
Reply #34 Friday, April 20, 2007 7:59 AM
that's lovely Seldom......I've only heard "A problem shared is a problem halved".....yours is so much more poignant.....
sounds like you're really seeing the light at the end of the tunnel Quentin.......you sound very positive......you're gonna be just fine......give your little diamond a kiss on the forehead for me......
Reply #34 Friday, April 20, 2007 7:59 AM
"Share the pain and it's halved...share the joy, and it's doubled".
that's lovely Seldom......I've only heard "A problem shared is a problem halved".....yours is so much more poignant.....
sounds like you're really seeing the light at the end of the tunnel Quentin.......you sound very positive......you're gonna be just fine......give your little diamond a kiss on the forehead for me......
ArileenDesign
Reply #35 Friday, April 20, 2007 8:17 AM
I can this afternoon i'll call some attorneys
Yes i make that for you, and thanks Sydneysiders really
Reply #35 Friday, April 20, 2007 8:17 AM
you sound very positive
I can this afternoon i'll call some attorneys
give your little diamond a kiss on the forehead for me
Yes i make that for you, and thanks Sydneysiders really
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Reply #21 Thursday, March 29, 2007 1:24 PM