Is marraige a good idea?
Friday, September 5, 2003 by joetheblow | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
I was thinking about getting married... although I am not serious with anyone
But is it a good idea? I like it... or the idea of it anyway. It just seems so peaceful and all that one-ness.
After reading this artical I am not to sure:
http://slate.msn.com/id/2087897/
I'm so gullable.
But is it a good idea? I like it... or the idea of it anyway. It just seems so peaceful and all that one-ness.
After reading this artical I am not to sure:
http://slate.msn.com/id/2087897/
I'm so gullable.
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kona0197
Reply #22 Friday, September 5, 2003 2:36 PM
My and my girlfriends thoughts exactly. Hence the reason we just think we are married but it is unofficial.
Reply #22 Friday, September 5, 2003 2:36 PM
| I think marriage is a commitment. |
My and my girlfriends thoughts exactly. Hence the reason we just think we are married but it is unofficial.
UBoB
Reply #23 Friday, September 5, 2003 4:32 PM
Reply #23 Friday, September 5, 2003 4:32 PM
Marriage is the absolute best. It has been my saving grace for 16+ years. And remember, your spouse is the only family you actually get to choose. 
Doreen
Reply #24 Friday, September 5, 2003 4:47 PM
Reply #24 Friday, September 5, 2003 4:47 PM
you were thinking about getting married? hehe
that's nice
well don't do it if you "think" it's a "nice thing" to do or don't do it cuz it's the "proper and right thing" to do.
and remember:
1. No "paper" will secure any relationship
2. Love is not selfish
(that's about all I learned so far, if I learn more I'll come back and post it here for you okay) hehe
that's nice
well don't do it if you "think" it's a "nice thing" to do or don't do it cuz it's the "proper and right thing" to do.
and remember:
1. No "paper" will secure any relationship
2. Love is not selfish
(that's about all I learned so far, if I learn more I'll come back and post it here for you okay) hehe
joetheblow
Reply #26 Friday, September 5, 2003 5:56 PM
Congradulations! Many happy years to your daughter.
At last your right WOM. And to add to it I guess it has to also do with how the 2 work... (excuse me I want to say a different word but can't think of one) on the relationship and keep it fresh.
I think the marraige rate is 50/50 now because many go in with wierd expectations. It is about being friends with your mate not just lovers.
(But don't go out with a best friend for years and you decide to make your girlfriend... oh lawd that is a mistake)
I still miss my friend.
Reply #26 Friday, September 5, 2003 5:56 PM
| #4 by JourneyMan Valhalla - 9/5/2003 5:43:50 AM I sincerely hope marriage is a good thingAS MY DAUGHTER GETS MARRIED TOMORROW ! |
Congradulations! Many happy years to your daughter.
At last your right WOM. And to add to it I guess it has to also do with how the 2 work... (excuse me I want to say a different word but can't think of one) on the relationship and keep it fresh.
I think the marraige rate is 50/50 now because many go in with wierd expectations. It is about being friends with your mate not just lovers.
(But don't go out with a best friend for years and you decide to make your girlfriend... oh lawd that is a mistake)
I still miss my friend.
joetheblow
Reply #27 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:13 PM
Reply #27 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:13 PM
I still don't know... how do you know when the time is right?
Then you have this big bash and tell everyone.
It be nice if you didn't and later if it totally flopped you could just sneak away.
I think that is one of the reasons why its a big bash! Plus the fact you made this promise in front of everybody and for those who are religist God also.
It be easier to hide the whole thing and break up anytime you want, but I guess that is the point.
Then you have this big bash and tell everyone.
It be nice if you didn't and later if it totally flopped you could just sneak away.
I think that is one of the reasons why its a big bash! Plus the fact you made this promise in front of everybody and for those who are religist God also.
It be easier to hide the whole thing and break up anytime you want, but I guess that is the point.
Sugaree
Reply #28 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:23 PM
Reply #28 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:23 PM
Joe, you just know.
I lived with mine for 20+ years before we married almost 9 yrs ago. We did it for the tax break too
Valhalla
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I lived with mine for 20+ years before we married almost 9 yrs ago. We did it for the tax break too
Valhalla [Message Edited]
eieio
Reply #29 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:27 PM
You don't
Reply #29 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:27 PM
| #19 by Doomgaze - 9/5/2003 11:55:11 AM I think marriage is a commitment.so why do you need a ring and a peice of paper and a ceremony and whatnot to prove the commitment? |
You don't
Fuzzy Logic
Reply #30 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:29 PM
Reply #30 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:29 PM
Confused here 
20 + 9 ? You can't be that old. At least you don't look that old - by about 20 years+
Fuzzy Logic thinks China needs to exaggerate a little less...
20 + 9 ? You can't be that old. At least you don't look that old - by about 20 years+Fuzzy Logic thinks China needs to exaggerate a little less...
joetheblow
Reply #31 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:36 PM
Reply #31 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:36 PM
China met him when she was 4... that makes her 38 years old
Sugaree
Reply #38 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:48 PM
Reply #38 Friday, September 5, 2003 6:48 PM
heh fuzzy
here we are in 1980
haha I was told I look like a such a bitch.... I was trying to look sexy
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here we are in 1980
haha I was told I look like a such a bitch.... I was trying to look sexy
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Reply #21 Friday, September 5, 2003 2:30 PM
So, is marriage a good idea? For me yes. For you? When you find someone, and you care, then ask yourself that question. Right now isn't the time to ask.