A Member of this Community Desperately Needs Our Help
Saturday, December 23, 2017 by LightStar | Discussion: Everything Else
I need to do this, no matter what (he may not like my doing this due to pride).
A well known member of this skinning community in the recent past needs lots of help from wherever he can get it. He is about to lose his car that he uses to make money driving for Uber and Lyft (because it has broke down and he cannot afford to get it fixed). He is about to lose his computer that he desperately needs to earn money doing graphics designs for various music companies (but they only pay him peanuts). He needs to pay rent, pay a car payment on a car he cannot even drive safely, pay utilities, etc. Not to mention food.
I have been helping him, along with many others, for many years, and he is trying desperately, but he also has a disease that leaves him in debilitating pain quite often, and he cannot even get pain medication. I am no longer able to help him out financially, and I am very saddened.
He is married and his wife works, but only for 20 hours a week (all she can get, and she doesn't drive a car).
Their rent is a ridiculous amount (due to typical greed I imagine), but they cannot afford to move.
They will be without a home and on the street with absolutely nothing very soon.
If you care and want to help them out, please PM me and I will let you know who this person is and where you can send help to. This is not a joke, I am not kidding and other members of this community can attest to that.
I hope you all have a blessed holiday season. Thanks.
Reply #23 Tuesday, January 2, 2018 6:23 PM
If someone will send me an address.........I will send a $100.00 check. Thanks.....Geno
Reply #25 Tuesday, January 2, 2018 9:19 PM
Things are pretty bad for me right now, but as long as I have air in my lungs I will continue to fight on in my work and my health and my life.
That's the spirit, John, never say die or give up. I've been in dire circumstances myself, both health-wise and financially, so I know what it's like to be desperate and like ther's no light at the end of the tunnel. It's not easy dragging yourself back up, but with the fighting spirit, the help and generosity of other it can be done.
Now I would have sent something by the way of cash, but from past experience when sending money to other US members, the intended recipient gets very little of the original sum once fees, charges and tax are deducted.... hence it isn't really viable.
I once sent AU$50.00, and when the recipient went to the bank to collect, they only got US$15,20. The majority was swallowed up by the conversion rate, bank fees and taxes, and if I were to send you AU$20.00, I just don't see it helping you much at all. You'd likely only get about US$5.00 or so, which hardly seems worth it.
Anyway, John, here's hoping that you have a much better 2018 and that things will soon start looking up for you and your family. Keep yer chin up, okay!
Reply #26 Tuesday, January 2, 2018 10:19 PM
Starkers.....sending via PayPal to a friend/family overseas choosing from your bank account, not a credit or debit card, and designating how much you want to be received in US$ at the other end, should see it get there intact.... something like Western Union is another story in my experience.... you just need his email address and it's easy peasy..... ![]()
Reply #27 Wednesday, January 3, 2018 1:50 AM
Starkers.....sending via PayPal to a friend/family overseas choosing from your bank account, not a credit or debit card, and designating how much you want to be received in US$ at the other end, should see it get there intact.... something like Western Union is another story in my experience.... you just need his email address and it's easy peasy.....
Unfortunately, I don't have a Paypal account and I've been unable to create another since my email got hacked, along with some other weird crap regarding my account. I created a new email address since then, but the Paypal registration process will not allow me to complete a new application since I'm already on record under a different email address and have past security issues. I emailed them time and time again to have the matter resolved, but I got nowhere and in the end gave up.
As for Western Union, well they can piss off. It was going to cost me AU$29.50 to send somebody AU$20.00. In other words it was going to cost me 50 bucks to send 20. Not fechen likely! The greed of bankers is without rival.
Anyway, enough of that now, it gets my dander up. Thing is, if I knew of somebody here in Aus with a working Aussie bank account and Paypal, hint, hint, maybe I could transfer the funds to them [$20 or $30or so] and it could be forwarded to vStyler that way. If you're up for that, Syd, please PM me and we can organise something between us. What do you reckon? I know it's not a lot, but I already went over budget on a PC rebuild before I saw this thread and have not a lot in the way of savings left. However, every penny counts, and to help a fellow member in need, I'll do what I can.
Reply #28 Wednesday, January 3, 2018 3:16 AM
Yeah... Western Union is daylight robbery....
not very flexible of PayPal ...you'd think they'd want to sort the account out....
could you PM me Starkers.....
Reply #29 Wednesday, January 3, 2018 6:45 AM
From personal experience this setback is only temporary. I've been there without a penny to my name or even a roof over my head. But I didn't give up, never give up. I'm still strapped financially somewhat but I can pay my rent and bills and have a little bit left over for a new project. The work you do and the attention to detail I have admired from day one. Hang in there John and have a blessed new year.
Reply #30 Wednesday, January 3, 2018 9:49 PM
Yeah... Western Union is daylight robbery....
not very flexible of PayPal ...you'd think they'd want to sort the account out...
I will never ever use Western Union for that very reason.... legalised theft.
As for Paypal, well I don't know. Microsoft closed my previous email address due to it being hacked and thousands of malicious emails being sent from it, and after that I was unable to use my Paypal account. Now Paypal was advised of the issue and why Microsoft closed my account, but I could never complete the online re-registration process and my 'please help' emails went nowhere. Oh well, it's not like I really need it. If an online seller has Paypal as the only meant of payment I just go elsewhere.
could you PM me Starkers.....
Yup, shall do shortly. I have a couple of things to do and I want to make myself a fresh cuppa.... tea.
Reply #31 Wednesday, January 10, 2018 6:44 AM
Sorry for being very late on this. Were having some difficulties with life. Could someone PM me his paypal email address. Might have some fund available soon. Thanks
Reply #32 Wednesday, January 10, 2018 6:25 PM
Thankyou..Thankyou Thankyou..Thankyou Thankyou..Thankyou Thankyou..Thankyou Thankyou..Thankyou...
Good grief I cannot say thanks enough to you guys who have sent help to us.. as much as i want to scream your names, Im pretty sure you probably would prefer I didn't so I will just again, say thankyou and hope that I can sincerely express what this has meant to me, and my family.
Additionally, I want you all to know that every cent, dollar, etc is going to either a bill, a repair, or medicine.
I feel like George Bailey at the end of 'It's a Wonderful Life'.... im pretty sure everyone can relate to that...
Merry Christmas WB Library! Merry Christmas, Stardock!.... Merrrry Christmas you wonderful old WIncustomize community!"
Hope i can in someway repay each of you in some way, at some point. Thanks so much!
HAPPY NEW YEAR to everyone!
Reply #34 Wednesday, January 10, 2018 7:12 PM
Reply #35 Wednesday, January 10, 2018 7:54 PM
It's posts like this that makes one realize how truly lucky you are. I recently got a promotion when I thought I was retiring in a year. I would like to send a check if someone will PM me an address.
Reply #36 Wednesday, January 10, 2018 8:55 PM
It's posts like this that makes one realize how truly lucky you are. I recently got a promotion when I thought I was retiring in a year. I would like to send a check if someone will PM me an address.
Reply #37 Saturday, January 13, 2018 6:52 AM
Thing is, if I knew of somebody here in Aus with a working Aussie bank account and Paypal, hint, hint, maybe I could transfer the funds to them [$20 or $30or so] and it could be forwarded to vStyler that way. If you're up for that, Syd, please PM me and we can organise something between us.
Done and dusted!....
Thanks Starkers....
...and Mrs S. ![]()
AND......
Happy Birthday V....

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Reply #38 Saturday, January 13, 2018 7:32 AM
V,. It's not about repay. It's about closing each step until they are all closed. Hoping for you to get better and you and the wife get back on solid ground again.
One day forward at a time my friend and don't look at yesterday as it's gone forever.
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Reply #21 Tuesday, January 2, 2018 4:03 PM
Glad you said thanks John.