SAD...
Wednesday, January 15, 2003 by Angel_Wings | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
I was feeling vulnerable...I took away my first accepted works here in a fit of immature rage...(silly me).
Finally, I came up with something I was proud of...and that had my best score and a certain someone besmirched the messages on my work with his drunken stupidity which after I FIRST deleted he denied until I RE-uploaded and he saw his own statement glaring back at him as PROOF.
What work was this? My work 'slither'...
I won't name the 'person' whom hurt me with his drunken, ugly remark but it makes me sad that I had to take away one of my best works because of this.
Even my own mother asked me, "Why did he say that?" I was MORTIFIED. *Tears*
I wish people took more heart and thought and soul into what they wrote on people's artwork... It forced me to retreat and I DON'T EVER want to do that again. *sob*
I'm hurting and angry right now. I'm sorry for going off on a tangent.
Finally, I came up with something I was proud of...and that had my best score and a certain someone besmirched the messages on my work with his drunken stupidity which after I FIRST deleted he denied until I RE-uploaded and he saw his own statement glaring back at him as PROOF.
What work was this? My work 'slither'...
I won't name the 'person' whom hurt me with his drunken, ugly remark but it makes me sad that I had to take away one of my best works because of this.
Even my own mother asked me, "Why did he say that?" I was MORTIFIED. *Tears*
I wish people took more heart and thought and soul into what they wrote on people's artwork... It forced me to retreat and I DON'T EVER want to do that again. *sob*
I'm hurting and angry right now. I'm sorry for going off on a tangent.
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snarph
Reply #2 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:50 PM
Reply #2 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:50 PM
you know some people just aren't capable of civility like sociopaths people that can do people that cant are just plummer cracks
Angel_Wings
Reply #3 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:52 PM
Reply #3 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:52 PM
TY Chris...
I tried to save that 'person' the embarrassment and trouble by deleting my skin and uploading again but his comment was back intact after the fact. *Sigh*...
I got so hearbroken I deleted all of my stuff from here. Stupid me. Well, lesson learned I guess.
I tried to save that 'person' the embarrassment and trouble by deleting my skin and uploading again but his comment was back intact after the fact. *Sigh*...I got so hearbroken I deleted all of my stuff from here. Stupid me. Well, lesson learned I guess.
Angel_Wings
Reply #5 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:55 PM
Reply #5 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:55 PM
Thanks Ande
My heart just hurts for me...selfish huh? I shouldn't give a crap really...it's not like I can't do better...but that was one of my best is all...and I feel somehow sad I guess.
Oh well.
Thank you for the consolations...
My heart just hurts for me...selfish huh? I shouldn't give a crap really...it's not like I can't do better...but that was one of my best is all...and I feel somehow sad I guess.
Oh well.
Thank you for the consolations...
snarph
Reply #6 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:58 PM
Reply #6 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:58 PM
when you first started chatting around the message board and i noticed you had site i checked out your walls, liked them to, even the bryce stuff any way what I'm getting at is don't let people play you don't grow callused either
Angel_Wings
Reply #7 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:00 AM
Reply #7 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:00 AM
(((HUG))) Snarf, how do you manage to get me to smile when I don't want to?
Angel_Wings
Reply #9 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:10 AM
Reply #9 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:10 AM
Angel_Wings thinks Snarf is pwecious enough for a SUPER DUPER BEAR HUG...AKA 'the bone crusher' hehe
(Watch out, this could get graphic).
(Watch out, this could get graphic).
Angel_Wings
Reply #11 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:18 AM
Reply #11 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:18 AM
Angel_Wings is bored and now feeling a bad case of insomnia.
(This ain't gonna be pretty)...
(This ain't gonna be pretty)...
Doreen
Reply #13 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:53 AM
Reply #13 Thursday, January 16, 2003 12:53 AM
too bad you did not ask one of the admins here to review the comment and they prob would have taken it off? (not sure) but it would have been worth a try before taking it down if it meant that much to you... but guess it's too late
anyways, don't feel like alone we all have ripped our stuff down at one time or another in a fit of "whatever you wanna call it" hehe
(me too, I've done it before many moons ago)
anyways, don't feel like alone we all have ripped our stuff down at one time or another in a fit of "whatever you wanna call it" hehe
(me too, I've done it before many moons ago)
Jafo
Reply #14 Thursday, January 16, 2003 1:20 AM
Reply #14 Thursday, January 16, 2003 1:20 AM
Angela...
The comment/s that may have been causing you concern have been expunged...either you can re-up or I can re-publicise [as it were]...either way, they are gone...
The comment/s that may have been causing you concern have been expunged...either you can re-up or I can re-publicise [as it were]...either way, they are gone...
WOM
Reply #15 Thursday, January 16, 2003 7:41 AM
Reply #15 Thursday, January 16, 2003 7:41 AM
Angela, As bad as they seem, most everyone nas gotton them. I know thats no comfort but try not to let them get to you.
Fuzzy Logic
Reply #16 Thursday, January 16, 2003 8:13 AM
Reply #16 Thursday, January 16, 2003 8:13 AM
Someone put a puke icon on one of my skins. Didn't matter - the complimentary remarks I got from the site's top skinners outweighed the one negative comment by a million to one.
There's always one who gets satisfaction from being nasty. If you ignore them they lose some of that satisfaction and end up lookin dumb. One comment is not a measure of your true worth.
There's always one who gets satisfaction from being nasty. If you ignore them they lose some of that satisfaction and end up lookin dumb. One comment is not a measure of your true worth.
Styl-X Design
Reply #17 Thursday, January 16, 2003 9:12 AM
Reply #17 Thursday, January 16, 2003 9:12 AM
Hey, i know what you mean, happends all the time to me ,
no for serious, i had this twice or some, with my desktop x, only that was a little polite one: dont like it sorry, but it was worse at my R.E.D. wallpaper, i was just a little boy... uploading his very first wallpaper, and full of joy of getting a comment, after seeing that the wall was downloaded 1000 times, (worked on it for 3 hour in photoshop) the comment was:
NEEDS WORK
(hope the icon still exists)
but shocked me dam yeah... now i am resist against it, after seeing it is in topdownloads or what ever, 1 guy cant rune my good day.
,no for serious, i had this twice or some, with my desktop x, only that was a little polite one: dont like it sorry, but it was worse at my R.E.D. wallpaper, i was just a little boy... uploading his very first wallpaper, and full of joy of getting a comment, after seeing that the wall was downloaded 1000 times, (worked on it for 3 hour in photoshop) the comment was:
NEEDS WORK(hope the icon still exists)
but shocked me dam yeah... now i am resist against it, after seeing it is in topdownloads or what ever, 1 guy cant rune my good day.
kthxbye
Reply #18 Thursday, January 16, 2003 9:21 AM
Reply #18 Thursday, January 16, 2003 9:21 AM
Gyah. I admit, I've never uploaded anything (my skins and such are well, to be honest, usually pretty... okay, they're crap - I just make them because that's the only way you usually get -exactly- what you want ^.^) but comments like that have /always/ annoyed me - be they something here or somewhere else.
'Needs work'. Is it hard to be a bit more nebulous than that? Sure - anything submitted anywhere will 'need work' - but the question is, if the person making the comment is so smart then just /how/ does it 'need work'?
Constructive criticism, when used responsibly, is a great thing!
(Whee, early mornings, first cup of coffee, mind wandering all about...)
'Needs work'. Is it hard to be a bit more nebulous than that? Sure - anything submitted anywhere will 'need work' - but the question is, if the person making the comment is so smart then just /how/ does it 'need work'?
Constructive criticism, when used responsibly, is a great thing!
(Whee, early mornings, first cup of coffee, mind wandering all about...)
Styl-X Design
Reply #19 Thursday, January 16, 2003 10:00 AM
Reply #19 Thursday, January 16, 2003 10:00 AM
sorry, that NEED WORK wasnt the only thing, there were that lousy icons that were ehm...
:BURK: dont know how to make ehm....
:BURK: dont know how to make ehm....
Styl-X Design
Reply #20 Thursday, January 16, 2003 10:01 AM
Reply #20 Thursday, January 16, 2003 10:01 AM
aha, that icon, NEED WORK
doesn't make sence... thought, so didn't understand why such a comment was submitted
NEED WORK doesn't make sence... thought, so didn't understand why such a comment was submitted
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Reply #1 Wednesday, January 15, 2003 11:45 PM