Msgboard Chatroom Marathon

Sunday, January 27, 2002 by Elfkura | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

Honestly, I would go to IRC for this kind of stuff, but if any of you have been there recently, everyone seems to be...inactive. Sooooooooo, out of boredom, I'm turning a thread among this msgboard into a chat room, anyone care to join? =P.

It's Sunday night, and I'm bored out of my mind. There's much to do, but I'm too lazy to get around to do it. My boyfriend is busying trying to get Visual Studios to work so I can't talk to him on the phone....and we can't seem to talk over the phone anyways...it'll just be silence mostly.

New Semester started........so anyone alive out there to join Elffie in this chat marathon? =P

Let's try not to let this post hang for over 2 hours, hm? =P
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feline
Reply #181 Tuesday, February 5, 2002 12:34 PM
JavaBrain - How many posts did the romance thread have?

definetly over 300, but under 400. i think around 320.

that is nothing for such a talented bunch as us
feline
Reply #182 Tuesday, February 5, 2002 12:43 PM
JavaBrain - Or is that him flying around up there tring to catch those crazy mint dragons?

feline **raspberry**
the lovely large mint dragons and i are not crazy. we are just more aware of a greater range of realities that some
Elfkura
Reply #183 Tuesday, February 5, 2002 12:52 PM
Elfkura munches on a mint dragon

These things are good ..........

for all the other ladies out there? Elfkura doesn't do things for girls weighing 100 lbs and thinkin they still need to loose weight.....na uh...not doing.

Weight is a woman's pride. What she can eat, she can have .
JavaBrain
Reply #184 Tuesday, February 5, 2002 5:04 PM
Damn mint dragons... you set them down to eat later, and the next thing you know, they are frolicking in your closet trying on your shoes (OK, actually making a home out of your shoes... but still annoying). I don't really care to eat a mint dragon that has been in my shoe, so I think I will just play with them instead.
Elfkura
Reply #185 Tuesday, February 5, 2002 6:50 PM
haha..

Java's got Orange made shoes
JavaBrain
Reply #186 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 7:50 AM
Damnit! I just swallowed my gum...
Elfkura
Reply #187 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 9:06 AM
well,

I've heard that it takes about 6-10 years to digest in your system, but as long as you haven't swallowed as many pieces of gum as I have, you should be fine .

Elfkura has probably swallowed more pieces of gum than her own age =P
Elfkura
Reply #188 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 9:11 AM
You know,

I read a post Frogboy made about his son making him do something. It makes me appreciate the fact that technology today has given many parents time to spend time with their children, especially fathers. Back a decade or two back, usually fathers are too busy to spend time with their children, especially when the child's 1-10 years old....

I had my father spend time with me when I was little. Although I would've liked more of his time, I'm thankful I've been given the chance to even know my father, however little .

But today, my father's able to have more free time after work to spend time with family, a thing he hasn't been able to do in the last decade. I just regret that I had to leave and study in the States when that time for him came around.

Elfkura huggles herself

I feel so cozy and fuzzy inside
JavaBrain
Reply #189 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 11:24 AM
Unfortunately, not all jobs allow you to spend a lot of time with your kids. (I'm speaking from experience since I have one). Both my husband and I work, so as soon as I come home from work, I spend the rest of the night playing with my daughter. I also devote weekends to her. It's not easy, though, because there are other things to get done.

Luckily, we live in a different situation than most. We have an "extended family" living arrangement. We built a "in-law suite" (more like a condo) on the side of our house. So, my parents and my family live all in the same house. When I'm at work, my parents take care of my daughter. I think my Dad really gets a kick out of it. He wasn't able to spend a lot of time with us when we were young, so he is making up for it my being tied around my daughters little finger. It works well for everyone involved, especially my daughter. She gets to know her Grandparents as well as her parents, and I can go to work without feeling guilty about leaving her in the hands of strangers. I guess if they could raise me, they should be able to take care of her.

Now, where did I leave my coffee?????

JavaBrain
Reply #190 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 2:26 PM
Feline has been awful quiet lately... is that cat sleeping in a chocolate cave somewhere? Wake up!!!
JavaBrain
Reply #191 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 3:21 PM
JavaBrain is talking to herself again.....
JavaBrain
Reply #192 Wednesday, February 6, 2002 3:43 PM
Hey! Wake up out there!
You guys better not be having a party without me!

JavaBrain
Reply #193 Thursday, February 7, 2002 11:41 AM
Ut oh! I've been left talking to myself...
kimk546
Reply #194 Thursday, February 7, 2002 3:31 PM
Take heart JavaBrain. I think that as long as the kid gets nurturing and knows she is cared for, that's the best you could give her.

My folks weren't around a whole lot when I was growing up - they were working - sometimes multiple jobs, or they had their own things going on. But the time my sister and I spent with each of them was special and we always knew that they loved us. And I know I gained a pretty strong sense of independence and self reliance.

I shudder to think of some of the adults I know of who don't have the confidence to make minor decisions for themselves without consulting Mommy or Daddy.
Elfkura
Reply #195 Thursday, February 7, 2002 3:54 PM
I have lived in many homes, and as a child, my parents haven't always been there to take care of me. If I wasn't left at my grandmother's, I'll be at my aunt's, or at a friend's house that my mother was good friends with....

At times I wished I could be with my parents like my younger brother (he was the reason why I couldn't live with them). However, looking at my younger brother and myself, I didn't hate my brother, nor do I regret the choices my parents made. They've shaped our personalities, and I've grown up to be a bit more independent and self-reliance than my younger brother ever will.

Every little bit of sacrifice works in your gain in experience, knowledge, and understanding .
JavaBrain
Reply #196 Thursday, February 7, 2002 4:29 PM
Elfkura, please excuse my ignorance here, but why couldn't you live with them?

At least I don't have to worry about my daughter not getting along with a brother/sister. She is an only child and will stay that way. of course, there are also people (like my mother in law) that even say that I should feel guilty about that.

Parenting is not easy.
feline
Reply #197 Friday, February 8, 2002 12:17 PM
JavaBrain - Feline has been awful quiet lately... is that cat sleeping in a chocolate cave somewhere? Wake up!!!

hormones giveth, and hormones taketh away

combined with the fact that i think work are trying to kill me off, and i have some cold type bug.

i am going though a depressed stage at the moment
feline
Reply #198 Friday, February 8, 2002 12:19 PM
JavaBrain is talking to herself again.....

feline is pleased to see that JavaBrain is growing as a person
feline
Reply #199 Friday, February 8, 2002 12:22 PM
JavaBrain - You guys better not be having a party without me!

feline wouldnt dream of having a party without JavaBrain, among others
JavaBrain
Reply #200 Friday, February 8, 2002 12:24 PM
Hi, Feline!
I missed ya'!

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