Birthdays

Saturday, August 13, 2011 by gmc2 | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

I generally don't wish people happy birthdays here. It's not that I don't acknowledge them because some of those people whose birthdays occur I do really like. Harley and Andrew happy belated birthday.

But, you know, if you're not in the clique then the chances of having that special day acknowledged is slim to none.

My excuse for not participating is that when 'they' out your birth date that they are violating their own TOS by divulging personal information. But the truth of the matter is just that I've been around for some years now and never had my birth date acknowledged.[e digicons]:'([/e]

To me, this is an example of the mods playing favorites, even though they say they don't.

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DaveBax
Reply #21 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:05 PM

RedneckDude
Quoting DaveBax, reply 15I suggest you go back over a year and see what percentage is posted by mods

By mods doesn't mean AS mods. Mods have friends too, why can't they do unofficial things also, just like the rest of us?

This is my last post but as you are a frtiend I will try and explain and correct something I said that may not be taken right.

I used the wrong word saying "totally" above. I didn't say there was anything wrong with anyone posting anything about or for another member. Wheather it's a BD or just plain fun. jafo said it best when he said the mods have access to information we don't have. Because of this reason of mods knowing I was aying there is a much higher percentage of mods posting BD than friends for each other. I never said it didn't happen but you couldn't post mine as you don't know when it is but you may know some so that is wonderful you would post first. That's all i'm saying and don't know how else to explain it.

 

The key here was again me using "totally" in my first post when I should have just used there is a much higher percent posted by mods which I just expalined why it happens that way. So my mistake in using the wrong word.

 

BTW. Please post PO's BD tomorrow

PoSmedley
Reply #22 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:12 PM

DrJBHL
No frakkin' amount of begging me not to post will stop me posting your birthday thread. Certainly not any reverse psychology, either, byotch.  

Phht.

You suck the most.

DaveBax
BTW. Please post PO's BD tomorrow

Too late. You're on The List. I don't like your avatar, you haven't emailed me in forever, and if I remember, you're from 'Jersey'. (If not, you should be.)

Island Dog
Reply #23 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:14 PM

My excuse for not participating is that when 'they' out your birth date that they are violating their own TOS by divulging personal information. But the truth of the matter is just that I've been around for some years now and never had my birth date acknowledged.[e digicons]:'([/e]

To me, this is an example of the mods playing favorites, even though they say they don't.

Lets get the facts straight here, shall we...

  • No personal information is obtained from any Stardock database regarding birthday posts.  
  • Posts are made by a variety of members including myself, mods, members, etc.  There's no favoritism at all.  Many members here have relationships with other members and if one wants to post a "Happy Birthday" to another....then what is the real problem?
  • Are you upset because nobody posted your birthday, and this is somehow a way to stop others from having fun?
  • Really, get over it.....

Flamebait is all this post is good for.

Hankers
Reply #24 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:15 PM

DaveBax
jafo said it best when he said the mods have access to information we don't have

 

Hankers
FYI - Mods do not have access to Stardock account information and therefore do not know any birth dates through that avenue. So the "Mods" are not violating any TOS

Skinhit
Reply #25 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:16 PM

DrJBHL
Reply #26 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:17 PM

Dave:

DrJBHL
As for a TOS violation, gmc2: None exists. Members post their birthdays in various places: Birthday threads from years past, on other skinning sites, on MSN, facebook, Google+, etc.

I have no access to any account but my own. I've written that in various places: pm's, Forums, irc, etc. to members asking for my help in fixing problems they were having.

No matter what, I still lurve yer retired ass.

Smedley:

PoSmedley
I mean, c'mon. Let's all take our ass-hats off and chill.

You can't. It's sewed on.

PoSmedley
No birthday thread for me. I want a 'Fuck You, PoSmedley' thread. Any one who is nice in it is gonna get unfreinded from any social site I have them on and a nasty response in the thread.

You got it.

PoSmedley
Cause you all suck.

And you promised, PROMISED you wouldn't tell.   

No frakkin way I'm gonna pass on a "Frak You Smedley" thread. No frakkin' way! Ev-ar,

 

*edit:

This was being typed when I.D. and Hankers (and that turkey skinhit - ) posted.

 

willistuder
Reply #27 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:32 PM

I'm probably at or near the top of Happy Birthday posters the last few years. Most of them are for people I "know"; some for others I respect for reasons such as contributions to skinning, forums, or just plain longevity. In your case, if I knew when your birthday was, I'd post one due to your skinning contibutions and the fact that you've been around a long time; the trouble is, I don't know when your birthday is, and that goes for a lot of other people who I'd like to send birthday wishes to. In any case, Happy Birthday.

Jafo
Reply #28 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:32 PM

DaveBax
jafo said it best when he said the mods have access to information we don't have.

Dave...I didn't say that....certainly not here in this thread...

I'm an Admin on this site [and functionally the same on all of Stardock's sites] and even I don't have access to DOBs, etc.

US Banking [credit card] laws prohibit my access to SD's account info as I am not a US resident... so the only info accessible is User name, Nick, and email - the stuff needed to 'handle' people on the site/s.

IF someone posts their personal details on their page/s....like DOB or age, etc. then it's visible to all.

Other than that...confidential info remains exactly that.

PoSmedley
Reply #29 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:39 PM

DrJBHL
No frakkin way I'm gonna pass on a "Frak You Smedley" thread. No frakkin' way! Ev-ar,

You still suck. The most.

as I am not a US resident...

What's Australian for 'you suck'? Anybody?

willistuder
In your case, if I knew when your birthday was, I'd post one due to your skinning contibutions and the fact that you've been around a long time; the trouble is, I don't know when your birthday is, and that goes for a lot of other people who I'd like to send birthday wishes to.

You suck for using the word 'birthday' three times in a single sentence.

2of3
Reply #30 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:47 PM

PoSmedley
You still suck. The most.

this sucks more

PoSmedley
Reply #31 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:52 PM

this sucks more

Not funny. A picture of Traci Lords...THAT would have been funny. Or even Steven Seagal, Shia LaBeouf, John Travolta, The Real Housewaives (of any city) or an article on NASA canceling the shuttle program.

So..you suck.

DaveBax
Reply #32 Saturday, August 13, 2011 12:56 PM

jafo, I don't know what the hell I thought I read before. All calmed down and am sorry for posting incorrect information. Actually Hankers states it correctly. No excuses but I sometimes have a pronlem I never had before the last couple years saying some things incorrect but meaning something totally different. That's something I know is wrong with me and the reason I don't say to much. Despite  what anyone thinks I would do amost anything to help someone else.

 

Being very careful with the word almost. I didn't have it in the sentence but read it and thought I better add it.

2of3
Reply #33 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:12 PM

PoSmedley
So..you suck.

I suck, therefor I am

gmc2
Reply #34 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:25 PM

Island Dog
Flamebait is all this post is good for.

Well, at least ID caught the little Bircher at the end of the post to realize there was a certain amount of trolling going on.

PoSmedley
Talk about just sucking the fun and joy out of something so simple that it doesn't require or even need to analyzed or misconstrued.

I could have made these comments on Harley's or Andrew's birthday threads but decided not too because that would have been disrespectful to the intent of the threads and again, happy belated birthday Harley and Andrew.

DrJBHL
My birthday threads are done as a member, not a Mod, and there's no badge on them.

Doc, you are the one that posts the majority of birthday greetings. You are a mod and you are posting those as a mod, I assumed (incorrectly it appears) that those posts were "official" posts. Now, at least, I guess, that that may not be the case, but....

Why all the crying, its not life or death. You need to get a life that includes 1 important thing so you will be busy.

If anyone really thinks I give a rat's ass about celebrating my birth date with you losers then think again. I would, of course, take umbrage if someone was using personal data to mention birth dates and overlooking those members that have been around for some time for whatever reason.

I am relieved to know that our personal data is not being accessed to boost one's karma and that I have the choice of sharing mine or not.

 

2of3
Reply #35 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:29 PM

If anyone really thinks I give a rat's ass about celebrating my birth date with you losers then think again.

That sucks

PoSmedley
Reply #36 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:43 PM

Doc, you are the one that posts the majority of birthday greetings. You are a mod and you are posting those as a mod, I assumed (incorrectly it appears) that those posts were "official" posts. Now, at least, I guess, that that may not be the case, but....

He was doing that LONG before he became a mod. Hence the title "Most Suckiest"

If anyone really thinks I give a rat's ass about celebrating my birth date with you losers then think again

In that case...Have a Happy Fucking Birthday! I hope each one exceeds the last in greetings and gifts from friends and family. May it become a national -NO WORLD holiday in which we can all take to the streets in t-shirts that bare your likeness, waving flags with your name emblazoned across them as we carry you on a throne of solid gold down the main streets of the Vatican so even the Pope can salute you while weeping at his having to bow to your awesomeness.  Spiked Kool-Aid for everybody!

DrJBHL
Reply #37 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:44 PM

Doc, you are the one that posts the majority of birthday greetings. You are a mod and you are posting those as a mod, I assumed (incorrectly it appears) that those posts were "official" posts. Now, at least, I guess, that that may not be the case, but....

Incorrect.

I only post as a Moderator in "Personal Computing".

If and only if the situation of TOS violation occurs, I reply as a Moderator. You won't be in doubt of my role when and if that happens.


Get this straight:

The Birthday posts for friends are posted in "General" or "Community" (no referral) and are posted as a regular member.

Now, at least, I guess, that that may not be the case, but....

No. You started to apologize, but did not.

Then you added the "but" which negates you taking ownership of your misperceptions and misstatements.

You are not off the hook for the apology you owe me, gmc2. It should include the "cliques", "prying into user accounts", and "playing favorites" along with the intellectual dishonesty which those accusations imply.

You also owe the management (Admins) of WC and SD an apology. 

After you do that, I will extend once again my hand in friendship to a fellow community member.


Quoting gmc2, reply 34If anyone really thinks I give a rat's ass about celebrating my birth date with you losers then think again.

That sucks

 

Add an apology to everyone for that, gmc2.

 

 

PoSmedley
Reply #38 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:47 PM

DrJBHL
After you do that, I will extend once again my hand in friendship to a fellow community member.

I wouldn't do it. Do you have any idea where Doc's hands have been?

PoSmedley
Reply #39 Saturday, August 13, 2011 1:49 PM

Damn double post!

This thread sucks!

RedneckDude
Reply #40 Saturday, August 13, 2011 2:06 PM

If anyone really thinks I give a rat's ass about celebrating my birth date with you losers then think again
Come on GMC2, tell us how you really feel.  

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