Discipline

Wednesday, March 31, 2010 by loukeeya | Discussion: Community

isnt it about time we had a rethink on caning in schools? here in london we have gangs of almost feral kids roaming around terrifying ppl. last wk a gang chased a 15 yr old into a tube station and stabbed him to death, i really think we have to tackle this in schools. i only had the cane once but the threat of it was enough to keep us under control. teachers cannot discipline these brats coz they will be done for assault. even at home parents cannot discipline without social services descending on them. where i live there are so many of these gangs and its very intimidating, guns are on the increase and knives are used frequently. it doesnt bode well for the future at all

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loukeeya
Reply #21 Thursday, April 1, 2010 6:43 AM

yes guns are illegal here in the uk but so are drugs, doesnt stop ppl getting hold of them. i say feral coz they are like feral animals roaming the streets looking for others to prey on. in my area gun shots are not un-common but we all ignore it coz we assume its drug dealers sorting each other out. the fact these drug dealers are teens is shocking but they earn far more money than doing a normal job. i brought one of my long-term patients home for the day as a treat and we got off the bus at 2.30 in the afternoon, a car pulled up and another behind it - 2 young black men jumped out of the 2nd car and shot the others thru the window. i said to my poor patient "oh look, another shooting" and carried on walking. she was totally freaked but as i say here its not unusual. i dont have the answers but i do worry about the future, i dont have kids but my friends do and i share their concerns about what prospects they will have.

there is much poverty and we need to deal with that i suppose but if a young person can earn more in a day dealing drugs than working a month in a normal job what chance is there?

DrJBHL
Reply #22 Thursday, April 1, 2010 6:56 AM

There are times when a society's needs are met with volunteers, and others when conscription/lottery are needed.

If all wish to benefit from the society's privileges, then all should be equally required to partake in the responsibilities...At any rate, conscription doesn't necessarily mean service in the army...could mean public service of one type or another.

Some will feel 'put upon', others will make it an opportunity. The important part (to me) is that if one wants the benefits, then partake of the responsibilities. Some have free choice to do so, but if the society's needs (deemed valid by a majority) aren't being met, then it should become obligatory for all.

Just my 2 cents...and I'd fight to the death to defend your right to your 2 cents, Jafo. Truly.

Jafo
Reply #23 Thursday, April 1, 2010 7:13 AM

Some will feel 'put upon', others will make it an opportunity. The important part (to me) is that if one wants the benefits, then partake of the responsibilities. Some have free choice to do so, but if the society's needs (deemed valid by a majority) aren't being met, then it should become obligatory for all.

Doc...it was the freak of birth date determining whether I'd step on a gook's mine or not.  As it turned out the conscription system had a time/date cutoff...so I was for the castration next year...but then the Govt got its balls kicked and I was saved compulsory execution.

Never....I repeat NEVER confuse forced military avtion with noble idealogy of 'saving our world/culture/capitalism' for a better life.

It is not.

I only have one life to give...and it WILL BE AT MY CHOOSING.

Not yours, not some other country's...

Not some BULLSHIT save the land rights for gay whales because they have the oil.

I decide.

I will die before I am forced by any outside source to do otherwise.

Get it clear....I lived it.  I lived the draft.  I lived my friends dying...even 40 years later...from the shit that was Vietnam.  My father 'survived' WW2...my uncle 'survived' Changi [look it up - it will be censored via Google though].  I don't give a flying fuck about nobility and patriotism....once I am dead I am a rotting carcase of shit returning to the soil.....all else is socialogical feely-touchy-good shite.

You die and you arer dead.

End of.

Never confuse passion with patriotism.

I am passionate about this site....one reason being it transends bullshit social boundaries.

WebGizmos
Reply #24 Thursday, April 1, 2010 7:44 AM

Never....I repeat NEVER confuse forced military avtion with noble idealogy of 'saving our world/culture/capitalism' for a better life.

It is not.

I only have one life to give...and it WILL BE AT MY CHOOSING.

Not yours, not some other country's...

Not some BULLSHIT save the land rights for gay whales because they have the oil.

I decide.

I will die before I am forced by any outside source to do otherwise.

Get it clear....I lived it. I lived the draft. I lived my friends dying...even 40 years later...from the shit that was Vietnam. My father 'survived' WW2...my uncle 'survived' Changi [look it up - it will be censored via Google though]. I don't give a flying fuck about nobility and patriotism....once I am dead I am a rotting carcase of shit returning to the soil.....all else is socialogical feely-touchy-good shite.

You die and you arer dead.

End of.

Never confuse passion with patriotism.

I am passionate about this site....one reason being it transends bullshit social boundaries.

Right on Jafo!

Jafo
Reply #25 Thursday, April 1, 2010 7:50 AM

Geez I have a load of typos in that.

I guess one saving grace is i know when I spell it wrong...

Chasbo
Reply #26 Sunday, April 18, 2010 12:00 PM

yes the parents should take responsibility for their kids, alas here in the uk so many are from single parent families without role models. they seem to treat these vulgar and violent musicians as their role models, hence the "gangster" behavious.

What we are talking about here is a general breakdown in society, ala "A Clockwork Orange". Well I don't think it's that bad yet but that's what it sounds like. As far as the "violent musicians", well I don't believe in censorship and it's more or less a fact that blaming artists for the violence of kids is a bunch of crap.

You know back in the day teachers, even in the public school I went to, were allowed to whack the kids around. I can tell you that it didn't make a damn bit of difference. Violent, bad kids were and are are violent bad kids period. By the time they are in middle school it's too damn late. The thing that made the difference was growing up in a family that had a sense of good moral values that were imparted to the children.

So we just go on making excuses for parents that don't give a shit about their kids.

Schools should in no way be reposnsible for raising kids...and if someone as a parent can't do that job they need to be sterilized so that can't do it again.

Yeah Baby! Now you're talking my language!

DrJBHL
Reply #27 Sunday, April 18, 2010 12:11 PM

You speak NSDAP?

Chasbo
Reply #28 Sunday, April 18, 2010 3:36 PM

Oh My God No Doc! I'm meaning the opposite of that! I quoted WebGizmos but if he really means to sterilize people or not I can't say. I'm guessing he's expressing his frustration at careless baby making machines who don't accept the ramifications of their careless sexual practices.

I'm surely not a Nazi! I love ya Doc but look me straight in the eye and call me a Nazi and I'll show you a Red White and Blue  Blooded American Midwesterner! WE straight on that?

DrJBHL
Reply #29 Sunday, April 18, 2010 4:42 PM

You favor sterilizing people who don't live up to your standards about how to raise children (which may or may not be "good" standards) and you define that as.....?

I believe that if one has to be licensed to drive a car, certainly the same applies to having and raising children.

That's a far cry from sterilizing people who didn't do whoever's standard of a good enough job raising them (children).

You tell me what people who think they have the corner on correct thinking, correct standards and correct actions and are willing to sterilize others who don't agree are.

jazzilady
Reply #30 Sunday, April 18, 2010 5:49 PM

I know what the bible says about disciplining a child. "Spare the rod and spoil the child.", My version of that is "spare the rod and spoil the little bratt!   I don't think a parent has the right to beat their children, but well done discipline goes a long way!

WebGizmos
Reply #31 Sunday, April 18, 2010 6:01 PM

You favor sterilizing people who don't live up to your standards about how to raise children (which may or may not be "good" standards) and you define that as.....?

I believe that if one has to be licensed to drive a car, certainly the same applies to having and raising children.

That's a far cry from sterilizing people who didn't do whoever's standard of a good enough job raising them (children).

You tell me what people who think they have the corner on correct thinking, correct standards and correct actions and are willing to sterilize others who don't agree are.

Why must out of the box thinking always be equated with nazism...socialism or some other ism for that matter? This is exactly why this world is doomed to extinction. Unless someone grows a spine and a huge set of balls in this country/world we will continue to have irresponsible people procreating and contributing nothing to the continuation of the planet other than the continued depletion of already strained resources due to over population. In about 20 years time....provided we last that long...our resources will be scarce...on a scale never seen before...and the soft people living in this country will really have something to complain about when they can't even get a simple thing like a glass of water out the tap.

But noooooo. Everyone has had this soft political correctness crap pounded into their soft little brains to the point that they are incapable of thinking for themselves let alone out of the box thinking. Drastic you say...maybe so...but let me know how drastic is was when you can't find the basics to live anymore like food or water that you take for granted every time you turn the tap or open the fridge.

What's that? You need someone to carry this plan out?  

Fuzzy Logic
Reply #32 Sunday, April 18, 2010 6:21 PM

If you sterilize the lower end of the gene pool, who is going to work at McDonalds?

WebGizmos
Reply #33 Sunday, April 18, 2010 7:10 PM

If you sterilize the lower end of the gene pool, who is going to work at McDonalds?

Ok...you have a point there!

DrJBHL
Reply #34 Sunday, April 18, 2010 7:34 PM

Why must out of the box thinking always be equated with nazism

I didn't mention the word. Glad we were speaking about it at the time, so you know how I feel.

It all boils down to "Qui custodiet ipsos Custodiens?" or, "Who guards the Guardians?". In  other words, as you know, power corrupts. You've been the victim of the system so who in that system do YOU trust with your testicles? Literally. If you wish to limit unsupportable births, educate the people.

Unless someone grows a spine and a huge set of balls in this country/world we will continue to have irresponsible people procreating and contributing nothing to the continuation of the planet other than the continued depletion of already strained resources due to over population.

OK...if unsustainable, they'll die off. Like any population in dysequilibrium. As for "The Leader" with the huge balls? If you have your way, he'll be the only one with them.  

In about 20 years time....provided we last that long...our resources will be scarce...on a scale never seen before...and the soft people living in this country will really have something to complain about when they can't even get a simple thing like a glass of water out the tap.

Fine...there some sort of problem. Usually, at this point in a discussion "Social Darwinism" pops it's head up. The fact is, what will be will be. I doubt any single human (never mind a group or nation/race of them) will have the will to deny him/herself anything for the future of the race. We aren't geared that way. Selfishness is the rule.

Everyone has had this soft political correctness crap pounded into their soft little brains to the point that they are incapable of thinking for themselves let alone out of the box thinking.

If the "thinking one's way out of the box" means denial of humanity and adoption of elitist/fascist values, my soft little brain will be staying where it currently resides, thanks. When and if someone tries to take what's mine from my home, I'll defend myself. I won't go out human hunting under the guise of "improving the race".

What's that? You need someone to carry this plan out?

What's scary is that people don't remember we've had people who claimed, "I'll solve all your problems." and "Blame the people with the hook noses who write differently and dress differently and oh yes, don't believe in our G-d....etc, etc, etc." who give you something to fear or something to hate all in an effort to distract you from the fact they're taking away your freedom while they're making you secure.

Remember:

"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad men." - Lord Acton

"A government strong enough to give you what you want is strong enough to take all you have." - T. Jefferson.

"Ask not for whom the bell tolls: It tolls for thee." - J. Donne.

WebGizmos
Reply #35 Monday, April 19, 2010 7:44 AM

Why must out of the box thinking always be equated with nazism

I didn't mention the word. Glad we were speaking about it at the time, so you know how I feel.

It all boils down to "Qui custodiet ipsos Custodiens?" or, "Who guards the Guardians?". In other words, as you know, power corrupts. You've been the victim of the system so who in that system do YOU trust with your testicles? Literally. If you wish to limit unsupportable births, educate the people.

Yes...power corrupts...but it doesn't have to. I understand you may be conditioned to think that is always the case...so you just accept that this will always be the case and just rule out that it can be different. And when out of the box thinking comes along you just dismiss it without consideration.

Well...unlike many others I choose to think for myself. Government and anyone working for it has proven time and again they cannot be trusted and are extremely unreliable in carrying out anything that is "for the people" unless they can profit from it...so they never even enter my thinking or consideration as part of any solution. As far as education...it is obvious education has failed miserably so this consideration is a mute point.

Unless someone grows a spine and a huge set of balls in this country/world we will continue to have irresponsible people procreating and contributing nothing to the continuation of the planet other than the continued depletion of already strained resources due to over population.

OK...if unsustainable, they'll die off. Like any population in dysequilibrium. As for "The Leader" with the huge balls? If you have your way, he'll be the only one with them.

And you will die off as well for lack of any action on your part to prevent that. Well...someone has to lead...we have more than enough followers.

In about 20 years time....provided we last that long...our resources will be scarce...on a scale never seen before...and the soft people living in this country will really have something to complain about when they can't even get a simple thing like a glass of water out the tap.

Fine...there some sort of problem. Usually, at this point in a discussion "Social Darwinism" pops it's head up. The fact is, what will be will be. I doubt any single human (never mind a group or nation/race of them) will have the will to deny him/herself anything for the future of the race. We aren't geared that way. Selfishness is the rule.

This kind of thinking I completely dismiss. You have accepted defeat and will just lie down and die. You cannot or will not consider any alternative outcome because of your conditioning to think otherwise. And yes...unfortunately selfishness seems to be the rule or accepted excuse for doing nothing...again you cannot think outside the box. Some dead guy makes a comment and everyone parrots and chooses to quote it as the rule. Hence we are destined to become extinct.

Everyone has had this soft political correctness crap pounded into their soft little brains to the point that they are incapable of thinking for themselves let alone out of the box thinking.

If the "thinking one's way out of the box" means denial of humanity and adoption of elitist/fascist values, my soft little brain will be staying where it currently resides, thanks. When and if someone tries to take what's mine from my home, I'll defend myself. I won't go out human hunting under the guise of "improving the race".

What about denial of responsibility? Why contain yourself to thinking small...you need to think globally. The ones that don't limit their thinking are already knocking at your door...you just choose to not listen. If you wait for the knock at your door...your to late. Your defense will be short lived at this point...but you gave up a long time ago...so why fight it.


What's that? You need someone to carry this plan out?

What's scary is that people don't remember we've had people who claimed, "I'll solve all your problems." and "Blame the people with the hook noses who write differently and dress differently and oh yes, don't believe in our G-d....etc, etc, etc." who give you something to fear or something to hate all in an effort to distract you from the fact they're taking away your freedom while they're making you secure.

Remember:

"Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad men." - Lord Acton

"A government strong enough to give you what you want is strong enough to take all you have." - T. Jefferson.

"Ask not for whom the bell tolls: It tolls for thee." - J. Donne.

I remember all to well about the previous claims of "I will save you...solve all your problems." But people still allow these kind of people to rise to power. Why? Because they dress nice or look nice...for reasons that make absolutely no sense whatsoever. They never learn. But they sure as hell love quoting dead guys when they need to some rhyme or reason for their thinking. And it just sounds nice and makes them look smart. 

And if you choose to continue to follow someone that makes empty promises or quote someones god or give you a replacement god to believe in then you have learned nothing from those dead guy quotes.

And on it goes...

 

WOM
Reply #36 Monday, April 19, 2010 8:42 AM

Like I said before, the next war will be over resources

jpmurph1
Reply #37 Monday, April 19, 2010 10:13 AM

this is one of the many reasons why i own handguns, (then again being retired from law enforcement is another)

starkers
Reply #38 Monday, April 19, 2010 1:16 PM

Like I said before, the next war will be over resources.

Most wars in the past have been over resources... you know, greedy people wanting what it not theirs, and politicians sending young men/women to die for them.  Yet some misguided/misinformed people seem to think war is all about freedom.  Thing is, whose freedom???  The politicians and capitalists freedom to continue robbing us blind??  Or is it a government plot/freedom to cull excess population when they decide too many citizens are using too many resources???

Sadly, war is less about freedom than it is about greed and the self-preservation of the upper echelon.... and anybody who thinks there is something noble or glorious about war needs their fucking head read.

LightStar
Reply #39 Monday, April 19, 2010 1:37 PM

My Dad once hit me and knocked me out right in front of two police officers and they did nothing, and I truly deserved it now that I think about it.

Problem is, if he did that today, they would cuff him and take him off to jail. Parents nowadays are also bound by these stupid rules of society and the legal system that you cannot even discipline your own child without repercussions.  Parents are actually scared to discipline their children because of it in a lot of cases.  Hell, I have even heard of kids turning in their own parents to the authorities for child abuse, when it was nothing more than a spanking that they deserved! 

starkers
Reply #40 Monday, April 19, 2010 10:34 PM

LightStar
My Dad once hit me and knocked me out right in front of two police officers and they did nothing, and I truly deserved it now that I think about it.

Problem is, if he did that today, they would cuff him and take him off to jail. Parents nowadays are also bound by these stupid rules of society and the legal system that you cannot even discipline your own child without repercussions.  Parents are actually scared to discipline their children because of it in a lot of cases.  Hell, I have even heard of kids turning in their own parents to the authorities for child abuse, when it was nothing more than a spanking that they deserved! 

Yeah, a few years back I spent 8 hours in lockup after locking my (then 13 y/o) step-daughter in to protect her from herself... and others.  Shaunna and I overheard her on a borrowed mobile phone arranging to meet up with a man in his 30's, and at 9.40pm, no good was going to come from that so I deadlocked the doors and any windows she could possibly climb out of.  When she discovered that she couldn't get out she promptly went to her room and called the cops on the mobile phone I'd loaned her.  I was subsequently arrested for kidnapping and unlawful deprivation of liberty and held for 8 hours. 

It didn't matter to the cops that we had overheard her making arrangements for an illegal interlude with a 30 something year old, so had locked her in for her own good... and it didn't matter that the mobile phone I confiscated was technically and legally mine.  It had her SIM card in it... and that HAD to be returned WITH the phone (otherwise it would be useless) or I'd be charged with stealing as well. Now tell me that kind of police/legal attitude is not giving kids a license to do as they please when they please, and bugger the consequences.

I was finally released without charge, but only after I had given an assurances that I never deadlock the doors again (too bad we were having a spate of burglaries in the neighbourhood at the time) and agreed to hand back the (borrowed) phone.  Yeah, right!!!  Things went from bad to worse after that: the license to disobey us was police issued, and at 14 she took off to be with a 28 y/o... and there was nothing we could do (or get done) about it,

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