What am I doing Wrong!!
I don't get it
Monday, March 2, 2009 by scruf57 | Discussion: Community

Reply #22 Monday, March 2, 2009 9:39 PM
shooooo! people shoooooo! you are hijacking scruf57's thread!..
give scruf some good pointers instead of the old "skin for your self"...
Its social psychology you want people to like what you do, you get a emotional reward if your work become's popular.
Read up about Maslow's
I will be honest here i skin maybe 70/30, 70% for myself because i like pushing pixels and 30% i skin for all you out there
for you to enjoy (if you do ) my hours of work on a wb, both things give me a "reward".
Reply #23 Monday, March 2, 2009 9:47 PM
As I have said before:
With Journeymen as well as Master skinners, by the time they are promoted to those positions they have shown they know what WC mods look for in skin's quality, asthetics, as well as have shown the maturity not to abuse the "free pass" given thru moderation
IMO it is fair, they have shown the maturity to grow/learn from rejections and utilize the knowledge gained from them, to master their craft. They too once started at the bottom of the chain, but thru hard work and learning from their mistakes,etc,
Yes they automaticaly get I believe a "5" rating which is like 2.5 or 3 stars, but they also loose out on getting passed thru moderation with 5 stars for awesome skins. Most journeyman and masters skins Merit typically more than 3 stars, as usually thier works are top notch, so if any thing they are getting the short end of the stick.
Also they are generally at the public's mercy for ratings, unless we happen to see the skin in the library and rate it. Also by being not moderated, they can miss out on being featured etc, as since they dont get seen by us directly.
Every thing has its plusses and minuses. Some times the other side of the coin isn't so shiny when more closely examined.
On a side note I have been one of the Skinning community since 1997, and only last year became A WC mod. I feel no different Today as I did before recieveing the promotion. Them as it has been put, Came from the community, and are trying their best to give back to it.. But hey screw me right?
Reply #24 Monday, March 2, 2009 10:02 PM
And how is a newb suppose to know what direction to go in if their work just immediately goes to their personal page? Personal Page Elite is not constructive criticism. How far would any first grader go if when they turned in their work the teacher just handed it back to them without any check marks on the wrong answers, without any comments, without any emotion -- just handed the work back. When the other children's work ends up tacked up to the board, I suppose the hypothetical first grader than I speak of would be able to deduce that their was something wrong with their work, but would have no clue in which direction to go to insure that the next project met more successful results?
Mmm-hmmm. And who chooses the moderators? Whomever chooses the moderators, in their choice of moderators, decides what direction the ratings are going to flow in. I'm not saying that "us" and "them" can't get along, and create side by side, but that does not make "them" "us." Police officers are also citizens, and they can live in neighborhoods right along side everyday Joes, but when it comes to getting a response from 9-1-1, the officer is going to get a little bit more of a rush on his call than the officer's neighbor. It's just the way it is.
There was a time when I believed in the ideal of everybody being equal and having the same rights and the same opportunities, and "the only limit a person has is the limits he puts on his own dreams" but those days of niavete are over. Life became a lot less frustrating when I figured out nothing has really changed since the beginning of time -- there's the popular clique, the alternative clique, the troublemakers, and those who just aren't even seen sometimes, and membership in any of these clicks is less about what you do and more about what you are to begin with.
Reply #25 Monday, March 2, 2009 10:11 PM
People who have their works bypass moderation are quite specifically disadvantaged.
The 'auto-six' that is applied is a site specific system to enable the work to be seen by others...if it received no rating at all...[because it was not seen by a moderator to be rated]...it would thus be 'zero' and physically invisible to the public.
This auto-applied rating actually is DELETED automatically as soon as the first public rating is added.
Moderated [and approved] uploads receive a legitimate and permanently applied rating even before it goes public and thus receive/attract further ratings.
A by-product of this system is that those whom some may consider as 'favourites' because of their promotional status will upload works which are usually unlikely to even be seen/rated by a moderator at all.
Reply #26 Monday, March 2, 2009 10:13 PM
Well said Karen, and we are all just people, Moderators are just people, they aren't professional Art Critics, remember that the next time you feel put down, that's what I keep telling myself.. 'Oh well Tailsgirl, look at the bright side, a bunch of people liked what you did.. as opposed to the handful of Mods who didn't!'
Reply #27 Monday, March 2, 2009 10:20 PM
I don't see the role of the Wincustomize.com site Moderators as that of a teacher, primary school or otherwise.
That being said, however...and as mentioned several times already, if constructive feedback is requested it can be given.
It won't be discussed publicly as generally too many people tend to use such instances to score points against other members of the site, something which is actually against site policy/conduct.
Reply #28 Monday, March 2, 2009 10:53 PM
Your right Jafo. I'm just paranoid and talking out my backside.
(might have something to do with the fact that I asked three times for more critique on my last WB, twice in the first thread - https://forums.wincustomize.com/336024/page/2/#replies and second in a thread all by itself, https://forums.wincustomize.com/339439
and had only one response, and so I was a little shocked when it sat in moderation for six days and then showed up with a mere 1.5 stars, which is what my very first WB got which was a total piece of crap, and I had no clue what I was doing.)
Nevermind me. I just like to bitch.
Reply #29 Monday, March 2, 2009 10:58 PM
Look.... From what I remember, due to limited server Space The staff has to Pick what they feel is the best of the best and reject the rest. No harm no foul. It is not about what we like or dont like as much as it is about picking from the offerings what we feel are the best wallpapers for desktops.
If you are offered a Piccaso and a Van Gogh and have to choose only one does that mean you hate the other? or are you simply picking the one you like best? Tho Personally I would reject both as IMO they would not make good desktop wallpaper.
I did not become a Mod to become "above the Community" I became one to Become even more involved and give back to the community that has offered me so much. Tho it seems we are being looked upon as enemies or Non members of the Skinning community by some, for Volintering our free time and patience.
HG_Eliminator is sad to think his time and effort to give back to the community, has been a waste of time...
Reply #30 Monday, March 2, 2009 11:05 PM
HG don't be sad, I value you, you've been nothing but sweet to me, you're one of my favourite people.
Reply #31 Monday, March 2, 2009 11:14 PM
If you have a Piccaso and a Van Gogh and have to choose only one does that mean you hate the other? or are you simply picking the one you like best?
But that's exactly what I'm saying. Bias exists. It can't be helped. To say that all things are fair and equal is delusional. I'm not saying moderators are evil, or that non-moderators are being abused. I'm just stating the obvious -- there is an us, and there is a them -- I'm not condemning the thems for being thems, nor am I exhaulting myself because I'm an us. All of us just are.
HG_Eliminator is sad to think his time and effort to give back to the community, has been a wasted effort...
Come on, HG

Reply #32 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 7:25 AM
(might have something to do with the fact that I asked three times for more critique on my last WB
k10w3 ...as mentioned several times...if you have a query re delays....ratings...or whether a skin 'lacks' something...send a request via PM to a Mod, or myself....it will be responded to.
Subtle warning, though....if something really does suck....I'll likely tell you honestly....
Reply #33 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 7:45 AM
Do you have a standard "that really sucks" email template, or do you compose an new one for each case?
Reply #34 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 8:09 AM
Sort of...yes to both.
There is a list of 'standard' responses that can be used to suit particular instances of rejection....eg the screenshot that has insufficient obscuring of the wall image, etc. .... but many instances require specific explanation in detail...and are thus quite time consuming...
Reply #36 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 1:28 PM
Subtle warning, though....if something really does suck....I'll likely tell you honestly....
But will you tell me why you think it sucks.
Nevermind...this is all too personal, private and intimate, what with the PM's to monitors and all. I believe my answer is to keep my sucky art to myself, or to upload to alternative sites where my work is just out there for whomever wants it, without a rating system.
I was under the mistaken impression that WinCustomize supported the skinning community -- my bad. Turns out, there's nothing in the mission statement that indicates that. So I think I'm going to cease being so public, go back into my private little world and bypass all together the risk of rejection/disapproval/insult (and, consequently, the opportunity for my skills to grow). That worked real well for me for the last 32 years, I have no idea what made me think things had changed since I graduated high school.
Thank you for your time.
Reply #37 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 1:43 PM
Quoting Jafo, reply 7
Subtle warning, though....if something really does suck....I'll likely tell you honestly....
I was under the mistaken impression that WinCustomize supported the skinning community -- my bad. Turns out, there's nothing in the mission statement that indicates that. .
WinCustomize has done more to support the community than any other "skinning" site I can think of. Now to get to the point at hand, WinCustomize is a moderated site, it has been that way for as long as I can remember. The interesting part is that people prefer it that way. Most recent example is the WC member survey we did which the overwhelming number of people want the site to stay moderated.
Reply #38 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 1:53 PM
I'm sorry. But how does moderation prevent a member from not getting feedback? Anything a member sets to go to their personal page is accepted almost by default (no rips, porn, etc.)
A member has the choice to post here or there or where-ever they want. And the community has the choice to comment and help an artist grow or criticize or remain quiet.
Interestingly . . (at least in this post) . . not many(two to be precise) have stepped up to do that for the original poster.
Reply #39 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 2:06 PM
In order to improve, first, you have to be honest with yourself. Only then can your journey begin
Reply #40 Tuesday, March 3, 2009 2:43 PM
“We are so vain that we even care for the opinion of those we don't care for.”
- Marie Von Ebner-Eschenbach
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Reply #21 Monday, March 2, 2009 9:35 PM
I wasn't
Anyway scruf, as someone recently told me, don't let WC be the judge of your self-worth, keep on creating buddy!