My Son, My Hero

Tougher than most...

Thursday, December 13, 2007 by messiah1 | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk

Well...after getting on the internet and looking up a few things we took our son Ethan to the doctor on Thursday due to some unusual nasty bruising he was getting all over his body. We were sent directly to the hospital for some blood work. We were told to stay put and wait. We were then sent back to the doctor where he informed us that he was pretty positive he didn't have leukemia but thought he may have what's called ITP (Immune Thrombocytopenic Purpura) and that we needed to get him up to Lutheran Hospital ASAP to see a hematologist, Dr. O'Brian. They would be waiting for us. Let me tell you what....when you can get in to see a specialist without an appointment like right now you know it's serious.

Once we got to Lutheran they took more blood and we found out that ITP is a bleeding disorder caused when your body's defense system mounts an attack and destroys healthy blood platelets thinking they are disease-causing agents. Well, your platelets maintain the integrity of the blood vessels and basically keep you from bleeding to death when you get an injury. A normal platelet count is 150,000 to 400, 000. Anything less than 10,000 is considered an emergency. His count at Huntington was 10,000. By the time we got to Lutheran it was 7,000.

He was admitted into the children's hospital and given an IVIG, which is an infusion of healthy plasma that lasted about six hours. Besides taking his blood four times (a lot of it I might add) and having to put in an IV five times (he pulled out two in his sleep, two veins blew, and they had to put the final IV in his foot which meant he could not get out of bed for about 24 hours); one of the side affects of the IVIG is nausea. So he spent most of the day Friday puking everything he ate or drank back up so they ended up hooking him up to fluids. By Friday night his platelet count was up to 30,000 and by Saturday morning 85,000. They let us come home then. Now....we wait....and see if his body is going to maintain a normal platelet count. He has to go in once a week for a blood test.

During this whole ordeal Ethan was so brave and seldom cried and never had to be held down while everyone poked and prodded him over and over. It was so heartbreaking for us to see him go thru that but we were so proud of him for being so brave. We were told he may never have an episode again or he may have to deal with this his whole life. We'll just have to wait and see. In the meantime he has to take it easy. No craziness. Like jumping around on the furniture or from one bed to the next or basically anything a rambunctious three year old boy loves to do because of the chance of injury, especially a head injury. If you have a three year old boy you know that is easier said than done.

Why post here...I need to vent. It's frustrating for me to have to see my child go through that. All the while they were sticking needles in him, to see him look over at me with his pleading eyes seeming to say "Daddy, they're hurting me." And I couldn't do anything because I know that they are helping him...   He's a trooper. He's my hero.
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messiah1
Reply #121 Monday, January 14, 2008 11:44 AM
He goes in Thursday for another test to see where the platelets are number wise. He's had two infusions to bring up his platelet count, which is not sustaining on it's own. We'll see what happens Thursday...
seldomseen
Reply #122 Monday, January 14, 2008 9:58 PM
Thinking of you folks. Hang in there.
I.R. Brainiac
Reply #123 Monday, January 14, 2008 10:17 PM
What does he think about all this going to the doctor so much?
messiah1
Reply #124 Friday, January 18, 2008 9:24 PM
What does he think about all this going to the doctor so much?


He takes it well.
messiah1
Reply #125 Friday, January 18, 2008 9:25 PM
Today's trip resulted in some great news. All on his own, he's boosted the count to around 128,000!
Philly0381
Reply #126 Friday, January 18, 2008 9:30 PM
That's great news messiah1.  
ZubaZ
Reply #127 Friday, January 18, 2008 10:09 PM

Power of prayer . . or whatever, right?
messiah1
Reply #128 Friday, January 18, 2008 10:42 PM
Power of prayer . . or whatever, right?


Right.
elvee
Reply #129 Friday, January 18, 2008 11:30 PM
  
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Reply #130 Saturday, January 19, 2008 12:02 AM
ArileenDesign
Reply #131 Saturday, January 19, 2008 2:10 AM
  
sydneysiders
Reply #132 Saturday, January 19, 2008 4:06 AM
so pleased messiah....really great news.......    
2of3
Reply #133 Saturday, January 19, 2008 4:08 AM
rickalot
Reply #134 Saturday, January 19, 2008 5:15 AM
Xiandi
Reply #135 Saturday, January 19, 2008 12:32 PM
Awesome news! I'm so glad he's doing better!  
Duke261
Reply #136 Saturday, January 19, 2008 1:07 PM
I still remember your son in my prayers every morning...I've been doing so since you first posted this thread before Xmas sometime!!! Glad things are going better.
cplair
Reply #137 Saturday, January 19, 2008 1:31 PM
      
messiah1
Reply #138 Wednesday, February 13, 2008 11:13 AM
Ethan has a CT scan today and we have an appointment at Riley's Childrens Hospital in Indy next Thursday. Getting a second opinion. Losing faith in the Hematologist we have now. Count dropped, he doesn't eat regularly like he used to, having stomach pains, and he wakes up from nap/betime soaked with sweat. Mood swings are becoming common also. I wan't to know what's wrong with my little boy.  
bilbo1930
Reply #139 Wednesday, February 13, 2008 11:20 AM
I'm with you and yours my friend.
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Reply #140 Wednesday, February 13, 2008 11:28 AM
I can hear your heartbreaking messiah, and hope you soon get the sort of good news that you so desperately need... I continue to wish you and yours the strength you all need to support each other through Ethan's illness.

Andy.

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