17 year old with possible Lupus - need prayer
Wednesday, September 12, 2007 by RomanDA | Discussion: Community
Hey all,
Most of you know that my son and I have been into Tae Kwon Do for the past 6+ years. There has been a girl in class that entire time who is now a 2nd degree black belt. She is 17, energetic, into sports, full of life, a Christian, and a great person.
She has had a lot of physical issues over the years we have known her, fainting, IBS, and other issues. She hurt her hip this past spring during a softball game, and she has had numerous other injuries and issues as well.
She is a great kid, how many 17 year old girls would bother to stop by a 12 year old boys birthday party and actually hang out with them? She was at Alex's party on the 1st and she didn't look well, she said she had been feeling very tired and had a headache that just wouldn't go away. She ended up in the hospital on Wednesday of that week, she had passed out several times, and she was having problems with one eye physically looking larger than the other. She had an MRI, and other test, nothing seemed to point to an answer.
She showed up at TKD class on Friday, but was so weak she could only sit and watch. She told me about the hospital visit, and that she still had the headache, as well as having about a 50% reduction in her vision.
I got a call from her last night, she sounded sad and weak. She told me the dr's had run some more tests, and they were waiting on the results, but they were leaning towards Lupus as a cause for all the issues.
I'm struggling with this; Heather is a great kid and a Christian. She has been a good example to the other kids in the TKD class, and to Alex as well. I had asked her what she wanted to do in life and she told me she has always planned to be a Sheriff's Deputy, and to get married and have a "bunch of kids".
Lupus could put a stop to most of these dreams (if not all).
Definition:
Lupus is an autoimmune disease that can affect various parts of the body, including the skin, joints, heart, lungs, blood, kidneys and brain. Normally the body's immune system makes proteins called antibodies, to protect the body against viruses, bacteria, and other foreign materials. These foreign materials are called antigens.
In an autoimmune disorder like lupus, the immune system cannot tell the difference between foreign substances and its own cells and tissues. The immune system then makes antibodies directed against itself. These antibodies -- called "auto-antibodies" (auto means 'self') -- cause inflammation, pain and damage in various parts of the body.
Please take a minute to pray for Heather.
Thanks for your prayers and time.
David
Most of you know that my son and I have been into Tae Kwon Do for the past 6+ years. There has been a girl in class that entire time who is now a 2nd degree black belt. She is 17, energetic, into sports, full of life, a Christian, and a great person.
She has had a lot of physical issues over the years we have known her, fainting, IBS, and other issues. She hurt her hip this past spring during a softball game, and she has had numerous other injuries and issues as well.
She is a great kid, how many 17 year old girls would bother to stop by a 12 year old boys birthday party and actually hang out with them? She was at Alex's party on the 1st and she didn't look well, she said she had been feeling very tired and had a headache that just wouldn't go away. She ended up in the hospital on Wednesday of that week, she had passed out several times, and she was having problems with one eye physically looking larger than the other. She had an MRI, and other test, nothing seemed to point to an answer.
She showed up at TKD class on Friday, but was so weak she could only sit and watch. She told me about the hospital visit, and that she still had the headache, as well as having about a 50% reduction in her vision.
I got a call from her last night, she sounded sad and weak. She told me the dr's had run some more tests, and they were waiting on the results, but they were leaning towards Lupus as a cause for all the issues.
I'm struggling with this; Heather is a great kid and a Christian. She has been a good example to the other kids in the TKD class, and to Alex as well. I had asked her what she wanted to do in life and she told me she has always planned to be a Sheriff's Deputy, and to get married and have a "bunch of kids".
Lupus could put a stop to most of these dreams (if not all).
Definition:
Lupus is an autoimmune disease that can affect various parts of the body, including the skin, joints, heart, lungs, blood, kidneys and brain. Normally the body's immune system makes proteins called antibodies, to protect the body against viruses, bacteria, and other foreign materials. These foreign materials are called antigens.
In an autoimmune disorder like lupus, the immune system cannot tell the difference between foreign substances and its own cells and tissues. The immune system then makes antibodies directed against itself. These antibodies -- called "auto-antibodies" (auto means 'self') -- cause inflammation, pain and damage in various parts of the body.
Please take a minute to pray for Heather.
Thanks for your prayers and time.
David
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RomanDA
Reply #22 Friday, September 14, 2007 10:37 AM
Angie, I agree, she has a very positive outlook on life, and i am sure no one around her would ever tell her what she couldn't do, actually if they do, she will probably go do it just to prove them wrong. She is all of 5'3 and can kick my butt in TKD (and has) so I don't see her letting anything stop her, if its at all possible.
Thanks again all.. will keep you posted when i hear anything new.
Reply #22 Friday, September 14, 2007 10:37 AM
Whatever you, or anyone else does, do *not* talk about all the negatives and what she "won't" be able to do. She needs to be positive and live her life exactly how she planned. There is no "beating" an autoimmune disease, all you can hope for is that you learn to live with it and not let it rule you.
Angie, I agree, she has a very positive outlook on life, and i am sure no one around her would ever tell her what she couldn't do, actually if they do, she will probably go do it just to prove them wrong. She is all of 5'3 and can kick my butt in TKD (and has) so I don't see her letting anything stop her, if its at all possible.
Thanks again all.. will keep you posted when i hear anything new.
mrs_starkers
Reply #23 Sunday, September 16, 2007 2:55 AM 
, I know what the poor girl must be going through I lost my sister-in-law just last year from this awful disease, as much as my brother wanted to walk away he didn't he stayed right up till the day she passed away it took a lot out of him, but it also did the same to her as well....he was so supportive which what she needed...She is in my prayers to Dave
Reply #23 Sunday, September 16, 2007 2:55 AM
, I know what the poor girl must be going through I lost my sister-in-law just last year from this awful disease, as much as my brother wanted to walk away he didn't he stayed right up till the day she passed away it took a lot out of him, but it also did the same to her as well....he was so supportive which what she needed...She is in my prayers to DavePlease login to comment and/or vote for this skin.
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Reply #21 Thursday, September 13, 2007 4:02 PM