Can ex- lovers be friends?
Tuesday, March 18, 2003 by joetheblow | Discussion: WinCustomize Talk
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Alexandrie
Reply #22 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:38 PM
Reply #22 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:38 PM
you can be friends only if there is TRULY no love anymore, if one of the 2 still hope, there is no possibility
da_zman20
Reply #24 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:42 PM
Reply #24 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:42 PM
no.. I don't think it's very realistic, I don't talk to any of my ex's anymore, but im sure you and your ex are in a completely different situation than me and my ex's. If you two had a mature relationship where you both gave, and rarely took, I believe it's possible for you guys to be long time friends. But most relationships aren't like that anymore.
Xerraire
Reply #25 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:55 PM
Reply #25 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 9:55 PM
I think it takes a great deal of understanding...mutually. I indeed know its possible. I just persist in saying its not easy to do.
JamMeister33
Reply #27 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 1:10 AM
Reply #27 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 1:10 AM
Maturity has little to do with whether you want to stay friends with someone or whether you want to shred every piece of flesh off of their body with a dull cheese grater...... but hey, let's try and keep things optimistic!
Styl-X Design
Reply #28 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 1:59 AM
Reply #28 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 1:59 AM
no, I don't think so, why did you split up?
RustyBlade
Reply #29 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 2:08 AM
Reply #29 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 2:08 AM
Intence mutually shared experiences. even if it is a one way street like one was a care giver primarily; this can leave a bond. Did with us.
JamMeister33
Reply #30 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 3:26 AM
Reply #30 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 3:26 AM
I have to disagree with that one way street stuff....
I have five brothers and four sisters and that road leads to desires of violence...
It's even worse in someone who isn't family and yet you were intimate with.
I have five brothers and four sisters and that road leads to desires of violence...
It's even worse in someone who isn't family and yet you were intimate with.
JamMeister33
Reply #31 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 3:30 AM
Reply #31 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 3:30 AM
of course familial intimacy has a completely different meaning...... 
JamMeister33
Reply #32 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 3:45 AM
Reply #32 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 3:45 AM
I'm not explaining that very well am I... ?..... hehe......
kona0197
Reply #33 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 8:17 AM
Reply #33 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 8:17 AM
I'm still friends with everyone of my x girlfrinds. My wife hates it.
Kimbabe
Reply #34 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 12:10 PM
Reply #34 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 12:10 PM
Can we just be friends? The death sentence of any relationship!
I've found that it is usually impossible to be any sort of a real friend to any ex. Maybe only in a cool distant way most always.
I do agree under unusual circumstances it may be possible but very improbable.
*Kim*
I've found that it is usually impossible to be any sort of a real friend to any ex. Maybe only in a cool distant way most always.
I do agree under unusual circumstances it may be possible but very improbable.
*Kim*
bubba2
Reply #35 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 12:19 PM
Reply #35 Wednesday, March 19, 2003 12:19 PM
Joe Joe JoeJoeJoe freindship is the most valuable resource on earth and if you were friends to begin with then friends you will remain. 
joetheblow
Reply #37 Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:43 AM
Reply #37 Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:43 AM
We were friends to begin with; For years. She even got married while we were best friends and had a child. The marraige was abusive and she was not 'allowed' to talk to me (or anyone else for that matter)
She left him and then I reluctanly befriended her again, but because I lost her as a friend to a guy, I thought, "hey why don't I be your guy?" Besides that I loved her to much to be anything less than a life partner.
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Then we broke up.
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She said, "lets be friends."
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PROBLEM:
I still wanted to be her man
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Finally, I gave up.
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She gets a new man
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End of friendship.
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Good story huh? Its can't be true because I represent all people (men, woman, everyone) and that is why my name is joetheblow.
I can't beleive she hates me!!!
She left him and then I reluctanly befriended her again, but because I lost her as a friend to a guy, I thought, "hey why don't I be your guy?" Besides that I loved her to much to be anything less than a life partner.
.....
Then we broke up.
.....
She said, "lets be friends."
.....
PROBLEM:
I still wanted to be her man
.....
Finally, I gave up.
.....
She gets a new man
.....
End of friendship.
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Good story huh? Its can't be true because I represent all people (men, woman, everyone) and that is why my name is joetheblow.
I can't beleive she hates me!!!
joetheblow
Reply #38 Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:44 AM
Reply #38 Thursday, March 20, 2003 12:44 AM
This story has been changes to protect the innocent. Names, ages, and sex have been altered.
Fuzzy Logic
Reply #39 Thursday, March 20, 2003 4:55 AM
Reply #39 Thursday, March 20, 2003 4:55 AM
...Names, ages, and sex have been altered.
Is this why you are now a 'Madam'?
Is this why you are now a 'Madam'?
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Reply #21 Tuesday, March 18, 2003 6:14 PM